Do you still ask yourself?

OverlordWhiteWolf · 2019-11-19T21:48:30+00:00

would I be good enough for a girl?

would I be a good fucker?

These are all questions that take your power to be your own judge away from you and into the hands of some dumb cunt you don’t even know. More specifically, by posing these questions, you are willingly giving women the right to judge you, but here’s the thing: who gives a shit about what some random woman thinks? The only person EVER who has to approve of ANYTHING you do is you.

Maybe ask yourself if a girl would be good enough for you, or if some girl would be good enough in bed for you.

GrisBosque · 2019-11-19T21:49:09+00:00

I think you worry too much...

And production is the cure to poverty.

Counting on others seems to be the road to poverty....

Krazyrobus · 2019-11-19T21:56:38+00:00

Human physiology hasn't changed in a long time so I wouldn't worry about sex knowledge advancing without you so long as you know and understand the basics.

If you think you are good enough for x woman, then you will be. If you don't, then analyze those gaps and close them.

DangZagnut · 2019-11-19T22:24:56+00:00

A lot mgtows say they dont need a girl and avoid them. But how many of you are even in the decision for a girl?

If I desired to get laid, I'd get laid. I've not gone for it in two years, and the offer is always on the table. It's fun to flirt and all, but sex isn't a necessary thing to do.

I know im not ugly, i can get a girl if i take in some effort, but they never really want me that much. No one is texting me, no one is looking that much at me and stuff like that.

I'm dog ugly, like a -1 on the SMV scale, but I get emails and texts to fuck. If I demanded nudes I'd get them, if I said, I'll see you tomorrow at 9pm, so wear something slutty and you'll be taking it up the ass hard, it'll happen. It's not some Chad move and I'm not super stud, I just make sure any sexual associations I have are based on that in the first place. I don't get into any of that relationship shit and emotional investment. Nor do I associate with those who do either. Relationships work when there aren't emotional cripples involved.

It's entirely possible to have options and not engage in them because the juice isn't worth the squeeze. No matter how casual it is.

Dating isn't hard, it's mostly annoying. That's why I'm highly selective in who I would engage in it with.

Do you think sometimes about the female validation and your own spot as a lover or stuff like that?

No, I didn't have sex with women for their pleasure, but for mine. The trick is to engage with women interested in providing pleasure and not receiving it in return. Why would that validate me? My worth has zero to do with what I stick my dick in, which is why I prefer masturbation and quality porn. A few minutes, in and out the door, back on schedule.

I mean a lot here say they dont want and need woman, but i think a lot of us dont even get attention from them anyways. lol.

That may be true for some, I can only speak for myself, MGTOW is full of people that have been married and had kids; they're MGTOW because that experience went south and realize the whole waste of time is bullshit.

Dating when you're older is much easier than high school dating, especially if you've achieved some measure of success. Sex "just because" gets pretty lame when you get older, it's literally not worth the time for some people. If you've never had it before, that's one thing, if you've had it with different people, you know the drill.

So although I'm sure there are many incel types or unattractive guys who don't manage to get lots of women hitting on them, I doubt they are the foundational part. It seems to be much more those who have been in the relationship game and it's no longer worth the time and energy.

VagabondLonewolf · 2019-11-19T22:38:32+00:00

To be honest. Learn striking martial arts like karate or muay thai, join the military, serve for 5-6 years, get out , get a law school degree and serve as a contractor with double the pay across the world, travel the world and fuck women of all races, religions, cultures and chill.

When you got a 2 inch thing between your legs and it works , the whole world is your urinal. That us my philosophy. And if you want , you could visit shaolin temple and become a buddhist monk after learning the secrets of kung fu as well.

But do something like that in your life, even if you have hobbies like writing, reading,etc.

Wisdom_of_a_Khan · 2019-11-20T03:22:58+00:00

Kind of alot to unpack here but here's some thoughts that helped me when I went through this stage.

First off, don't let the fact that you quit business school get you down, If you were going down a path that would've led to you being unhappy for all your life quitting was the smartest thing you've ever done. Don't work your ass off only to get to the end and discover you hate where you ended up, That's a truly sad fate. Focus on finding what's next and what you do want to do.

About the women thing, ask yourself this. If there's a woman out there that won't take strictly because of the above reasons, is she a woman you want around anyway? If she can't handle you not having a drivers license or a nice new car do you really want her sharing your life with you? Same thing with the sex aspect, The only thing that changes during a period of celebacy is your sexual stamina it will go down as the body adjusts to your new lifestyle. If you get a girl that drops you because you only lasted 3 minutes after 5 years of celebacy, and she needs to get hammered down on for an hour and a half before she even feels anything, and she blames you for it. Is that really someone you want around you?

Or if you don't like the logical approach, try a historical one. Pick a great man in history, whoevers story fascinates you the most. Why was he great? was it because he could attract thots? odds are the answer is no. King Leonidas was a Spartan King that fought to the death outnumbered by tens of thousands of people, Do you think he based his self worth off of how many sluts he got to bang? or did he care more about his own prowess in battle and his ability to lead men? Neil Armstrong was the first man to land on the moon, most of the astronauts working for NASA were divorced or soon to be divorced, this was back in the 60s when divorce was still frowned upon. This was because the worked 18 hours a day by choice, they didn't base their self worth on what women thought of them, including their wives. They cared about the goals they had, namely, getting to the moon.

Now think of the people that do base their self image on what women think of them, If you got an image of modern male feminists who turn themselves into doormats at the first sight of a woman in the hopes they get thrown a pity orgasm you'd be right.

Weak men base their self confidence on what women think, Strong men don't give a fuck, they do what they want and get the job done, Don't be a weak man.

edgysecularist · 2019-11-20T03:56:51+00:00

Having a girl is meaningless either get a prostitute or a sexbot which wont divorce rape you

Title	Do you still ask yourself?
Author	mgtowyoungdude
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	November 19, 2019 9:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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