Last night, I just found out that a girl I ghosted in my early 20's, who is now a single mother of 2, divorce raped a really great guy. He sold his inheritance and bought her a house. She divorced him, took the house, and sold it back to him.

Back in the day, she and I had a fling. About 2 weeks of fucking. Nothing major. I clearly remember being a blue pill soy boy. But apparently I knew a thing or 2. She ghosted after that 2 weeks and became pregnant by some dude in the backwoods. Then she left dude, and gained support from his cousin. When this tactic failed, I found myself invited to a dinner with her brother and wife, and she "happened to be there".

She made several mentions of being pregnant, to which I responded (and this is the surprising part, as I remember myself differently) "We get it, you're pregnant!" and changed subjects. She scurries off. Night ends. New chapter for me.

SOOOOOO I was smart enough to dodge bullets. Didn't know that one day, when I was ready, I wouldn't have to. lol.

After the brother relays the updates to me last night, we enter a sports bar. The hostess gets us a table immediately. As we walk to the back, I hear "Hey, I recognize you". I start to ignore, but think, this may be work related, so I bite. She looks somewhat familiar. She's with a friend, and they are waiting on someone. She tells me I walked her down the aisle at a friends wedding (appx a year ago). Though I've seen her since at social functions, I know that look and I proclaim "I was drunk" and laugh. She smiles and responds, "So you're drunk right now?"

I respond, "No." and move back to my table. We ate great food, got drunk, went back to my place and played Super Nintendo until we passed out.

TLDR: I was once awake, but lost. MGTOW set me free!