Does anyone else love r/deadbedrooms?

Docbear64 · 2019-08-06T00:30:47+00:00

I don't love it due to their misery but whenever people throw out that bullshit factoid " MARRIED MEN HAVE MORE SEX AND LIVE LONGER LIVES!!!!!!" all I think about is the countless married men on that forum and who I know in real life who told me that after getting married they hardly ever have sex.

As a single guy I have a better shot at getting laid any given night than many of the people who are with the "love of their life" . Some poor man is going to go home , put the kids to bed, cook dinner, give his wife a massage, and she will begrudgingly chastise him for only wanting sex from her .

Meanwhile random Thot #49 occasionally texts me out of the blue to come play with my cock for a while .

Marriage is such an evil and ingenious trap and the stupidest men fall for it .

Paladin2903 · 2019-08-06T01:25:11+00:00

The saddest part is, the guys in there “just can’t figure out why.” Um, I’ll tell ya why, fellas.....because you got FUCKING SCAMMED.

No different than that “Nigerian Prince” that e-mails you and tells you “Prince Abudawale” has selected you to receive a million dollars.

You are just a “husbank,” not a husband. She was only blowing you to get you locked down. WOMEN WILL FAKE ENTIRE RELATIONSHIPS.

Men just keep allowing themselves to be fooled by these innocent female baby-faces and “who...lil ol’ me?” acts. Women are fucking predators.

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-08-06T01:25:03+00:00

Honestly speaking, DeadBeadRoom guys are fucking fools who are blue pilled to the core, trying to "fix" the sex part of the relationship by doing things for the "women" so that she can get interested. Lol. How stupid can someone be?

What men nowadays don't know is : The measurement of your relationship is desire for sex . Not length of time, not cuddling, not the "I love you" hippy bullshit, not money or furniture or trips or a nice house, not even children. And not even just sex. The measure of your relationship is desire for sex .

If a deadbeadroom guy's woman does not desire him, as evinced by enthusiastically seeking out sex with him, and passionately engaging in the activity, then his relationship is circling the drain.

If you are not fucking your woman on an extremely regular basis, with her enthusiastic participation , then your woman is just one weekend away or one girls' night and a few glasses of wine away from another man's cock. Because she doesn't respect you and not in love with you (Remember the statement : "I love you, but not in love with you". It carries weight). She may like you, treat you nicely, even act like loving (that's what they do most of the time), but if she doesn't respect you as a man, then she's not sexually attracted to you. You've set the bar really low, and a few drinks and a night away from you, next to a man she perceives as slightly better than that low bar you've set, and she'll be riding his cock. Why? Because she already hates the man she is with, so its not hard to be the guy who fucks her with no strings. I don't need to be the hottest dude in the bar to go with her to an alley or car to fuck her. If I am interesting enough and slightly better than the man she hates the most (her man).

Especially if she's pretty certain you'll never know.

Pity, deadbedroom thinks this can be fixed.

The husband is a dyed-in-the-wool beta male in a deadbedroom situation. Specially when he starts to do stuff like doing "household chores" to somehow "fix" things in his "relationship".

Nothing turns a woman off faster than a feminized man who tries to do his "share" of household chores to show how progressive he is.

he's happy if he thinks he's getting it that night which suggests a mental attitude adjustment.

I can just imagine a poor deadbedroom sop needling his wife angrily about the lack of sex and whining like a little child when he doesn't get it. Dude has pedestalized his wife's vagina to epic proportions. This kind of attitude dries up a girl faster than a split egg on a hot Phoenix sidewalk

Well, this is why you don't fix things. The moment she denies sex stops being respectful, that's when you jump ship. There is always a better product out there. Stop trying to "fix" things when nothing is wrong in the first place. Its just she needs other cocks, that's all.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-08-06T03:24:07+00:00

Dumb fucks married these bitches hoping to get more exclusive pussy. Little do they know the act of marrying them make their vaginas drier than the Sahara desert. With so many videos and forums out there warning men every where to not get married. If you still plan to get married then you have no one to blame but yourself.

[deleted] · 2019-08-06T05:52:34+00:00

Oh god, I hate that place. If you want to feel depressed / self pity, sure, go there. Some guys there are plain masochists enjoying their misery.

There was one specific post (too lazy to search for it) about a guy who cries as he rubs one out as his wife is lying next to him because he knows he'll never get a skin-to-skin touch again. But the way he wrote it, I mean, it was almost odyssey. He really turned his pain into art I guess. But well you know what, at the end of the day it's still pain, and I'm not interested.

Thanks god for MGTOW, it saved me from that place. After considering my options I figured no sex is better than endless misery, or an STD (through alternatives such as hookups or hookers).

The catch though is, once you realise you got nothing to lose, you don't need to keep up with bullshit. So you know, you start treating the wife the way she deserves (which is the opposite of what women tell they like), and lo and behold, sex is suddenly on the table.

Just a few days ago my "wife" basically tried to pull a giant shit test on me, being "depressed" because she'd like to live closer to her parents. Told her straight that it's fine, she's free to go. I don't want to watch her all miserable. The she "can't leave because kids". Told her she can take them, too if she thinks they'll be happier that way. Guess what, in the evening she initiated. But I'm on the next level now when I refuse to have bad sex (which it was going to be).

So yeah, man the fuck up, do exactly the opposite as everyone (including that sub) is telling you. But here's the kicker: you can't fake it. You got to live it. You got to be MGTOW first. You wanna be with me? Fine, but this is how I live. You don't like it? Fine, leave, whatever. The thing is, once you are on this level, you won't really care about sex all that much. I think men shouldn't marry before 40. The hormones in our 20s make us totally stupid.

softbeats · 2019-08-06T00:39:08+00:00

And the sad part is all of them made their deadbed and now they can sleep in it.

NickTesla2018 · 2019-08-06T01:56:03+00:00

It's a complete train wreck.

JohnnySkidmarx · 2019-08-06T04:13:15+00:00

Well the first problem is that wedding cake adds 50 pounds in the first year to the wife.

Jsjgiwwsddd · 2019-08-06T07:21:03+00:00

I bet most of those are cheating and the other part is wondering why no more sex.

Tbh, I don’t even read it, too much cringe and disgusting.

But kinda understandable tbh, it’s get tiring and boring to fuck the same person over and over again.

[deleted] · 2019-08-06T07:37:37+00:00

When you start of on plenty of fish but don't realise you are the fish.

NathanHollister · 2019-08-06T02:33:38+00:00

I like to slip in there and post "Just leave her if she doesn't care about your needs" or something to that effect, just for shits and giggles.

SergeantLiftsAlot · 2019-08-06T03:07:19+00:00

I go there for a good chuckle from time to time

Machomuk89 · 2019-08-06T03:50:46+00:00

Yeah not so much love. I was stuck there for a year because I didn't know where to turn. It was nice to learn that I wasn't nearly as alone as i thought I was. Now it's just depressing especially because I know many there would benefit from mgtow but you'll be ban hammered immediately if you so much as mention mgtow in anything other than a negative light.

BaffyBob · 2019-08-06T06:50:00+00:00

I keep expecting to be banned after each post. I'm never critical, I just point out fact.

GhostMan0214 · 2019-08-06T08:35:10+00:00

Why not do what women do? Prepare for life without her. Go to the gym, enroll in a few college courses, slowly get colder, and go out with your friends a little more. Make sure you have at least one lady friend present she hasn't met before, or three. Two would make it suspicious.

Then when she gets inevitably abusive and violent, film it. Don't call the cops. Just go to the station the next day.

Title	Does anyone else love r/deadbedrooms?
Author	SignalEngineering
Upvotes	32
Comments	17
Date	August 6, 2019 12:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/cmjdee/does_anyone_else_love_rdeadbedrooms/
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