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[+]801735-7 points-6 points-5 points 6 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
Why not? She's paying, doing everything, keeping me entertained, while I read a book on my phone, maybe swipe a little from time to time. I don't see anything wrong with that. I feeeeeeeeel like that is just fine and fun. Maybe she's weird and doesn't share my correct feelings, but that's her problem, not mine.
And if she doesn't wear a MAGA hat, there won't be a second date, of course. Because she scares me. I'll probably go to the waiter and ask for a Donald or what's that dish called again to subtly express ungigasatisfiedness with the date so they remove her after billing her. ]=)
[–]eduardkoopman2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
These stories, of men getting pussy for free. Without effort. And the women doing all the effort, and chaising. Maybe, these stories are true. But he has to be, like top 10% of dudes or even higher. So, it's the exception; aka Chad.
For the other 90% of "regular" men. It takes plenty of effort/time to date, and some money. Regular dudes, need like: * 38 hours on Tinder (swiping andf chatting) to get a date (source, Volkskrant 2017). * Needs to "chat up" at least 10 chicks, to get 1 date. * men often pays more for the date then women, 100%, or some other percentage above 50%. * regular dudes, often gets rejected alot if they go for quick sex/netflix chill/etc..
So. It's not good to take outlier mr Chad. For a general reponse. Because: "She's paying, doing everything, keeping me entertained, while I read a book on my phone, maybe swipe a little from time to time." . This is only something, that a Chad experiences or gets away with, or whatever. Out of reality for normal regular dudes. For regular dudes, dating is time consuming and money intensive. With little or no returns. And for regular dudes, it's therefore a decent strategy to opt out. And save their time to spend it better/more fun and/or for him to keep his money in his pockets.
[–]8017350 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
These stories, of men getting pussy for free. Without effort.
Without effort? (x) Doubt.
For regular dudes, dating is time consuming and money Intensive.
FTFY
That comment. Yeah. A few somebodies seem to not have liked it. ]=) I wonder why. Where did all the "downvotes" come feel from? It's just a "regular" date, with genders reversed. What is supposed to be wrong with "regular" dates? I don't understand why females don't praise me for being sooooo tootallyyyyyyy empowered. Hey, xoxo, 2<3<5
(leans towards the waiter) I'll have a Donald, please. ]=)
[–]eduardkoopman0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well you said: "....... She's paying, doing everything, keeping me entertained,.....". So since you said, "she's doing verything"; that assumes that you had to or have to put in no effort or very lettle effort. I really don't understand what you tried to say in above quited reply.
FTFY ( "fixed that for you") For regular dudes, dating is time consuming and money Intensive.
So, you fixed for me. that for every dude. Including Chads. dating is expensive and time consuming in general. Then why did you say in your opening post, the following??? "Why not? She's paying, doing everything, keeping me entertained, while I read a book on my phone". Are you not claiming or saying with that quote; that dating is free ("she's paying") and that it's low effort ('she's doing everything, keeping me entertained"). The reality for most men, when dating , is obviously the opposite.
A few somebodies seem to not have liked it. ]=) I wonder why. Where did all the "downvotes" come feel from?
I dunno, I was not one of them. Maybe it's the same reason, as my objections on how it's very rare that woman will do all the: paying, effort, entertaining and persuing when dating. While most men probably experienced in their life the total opposite.
It's just a "regular" date, with genders reversed. What is supposed to be wrong with "regular" dates? I don't understand why females don't praise me for being sooooo tootallyyyyyyy empowered. Hey, xoxo, 2<3<5
I don't understand this at all, what you try to say. Like, you want guys to be open to the 1 in a 100.000 rare exception, where the woman will treat you like "the princess" trying to impress the man on the date, and she behaving like the typical beta simp man? That is really rare, but maybe somehat common for mr. model looking Chad when women that are like 7/10 try to get with him.
[–]8017351 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
very lettle effort.
Not really. Perhaps you're just projecting your experience onto the story. What if the guy (let's say me) did A TON of work to get myself into the position to be chased by fems? It's like that "over night success" that takes about two decades to build with HARD CONSISTENT WORK - let's call it effort, for fun. Failure after failure, but persisted, overcome, survived barely not a few times, letting go of losses and focusing on that which is up ahead instead, rebuilding and building and building and building and charging and paying and building and charging and building and getting paid and repeat and repeat and repeat and build and charge and let losses go and rebuild and repeat... ad nauseam. And no guarantees, either. Think about that for a moment. Persistence, resistance, re-sit-stance, stand as they reee etc etc etc.
Then why did you say in your opening post, the following???
I already paid (REDUCED). And now I get to decide what I ADD to my life. And that's a LOT of work, especially compared to not having to do it, compared to, let's say the general female population being actually worth it by default and only outliers being not worth it. Does that make sense to you? Some developed abundance mentality and some are abundantly mental and everything in-between and outside the two, too. Does this 1+1 equal 2 to you, too?
But we all know that already, right? I'll have to add another notch to my sarcasm detector repair shop business idea, I guess. Give me your email please (no, don't, it's a joke), so I can contact you with the 1st batch of customers. ]=)
I don't understand this at all, what you try to say.
It's just a date idea, the default. Go out for dinner, work to make it entertaining, don't be boring, have a plethora of topics to discuss, be informed, don't be a downer, yada yada, you know, the default. Only instead of HIM doing it, it's now expected OF HER to do it. ALL OF IT. And for the cherry on top, instead of that "Miranda" or whatever item some restaurants allegedly have on the menu for her to be able to "easily securely safely" leave a "bad date", it's "Donald" (as in Trump, to melt snowflakes, I don't really care nor follow polluteticks) so HE can "easily securely safely" leave a "bad date".
Did I answer your questions to a satisfactory degree? Do you have any other questions? Also, I don't consider myself to be a Chad, if that helps you relax for a few minutes. I'm more or less average, but proactive, so maybe not completely average. Perhaps I'm just not scared of failing, so I actually start doing stuff. Not just thinking about it, but actually doing the work, walking the path, cleaning the house, calling the people, asking despite bad odds, putting myself out there even if not certain of success. You know, the doey stuff doers do and GET DONE. Followed by NEXT! Gladly, too.
Also, remember, there are 2 kinds of people:
[–]eduardkoopman0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
if that helps you relax for a few minutes.
WTF. I wasn't not relaxed ever, and my replies are also relaxed. I thought your OP had some faults in them, comming from the standpoint of: "an average man".
You talked about in your last reply, about a man getting women chasing him. Because he, due to hard work, becomes rich, or well looking possibly, or famous, or high status, etc... That was not obvious. And by default the vast minority. Aka, outlier experience. Ofcourse I understand that for exmaple LeBron James, due to his hard work and talent, has women chasing him 24/7. Etc...
I'll have to add another notch to my sarcasm detector repair shop business idea, I guess. Give me your email please (no, don't, it's a joke), so I can contact you with the 1st batch of customers. ]=)
WTF. I'm not handing out my personal info to random people I don't know. You're paranoid for thinking i was trying to troll or sarcasms you. I was being serious and sincere in myr reply.
Perhaps I'm just not scared of failing, so I actually start doing stuff. Not just thinking about it, but actually doing the work, walking the path, cleaning the house, calling the people, asking despite bad odds, putting myself out there even if not certain of success. You know, the doey stuff doers do and GET DONE. Followed by NEXT! Gladly, too.
Good luck wishes in your tries and endevours ofcourse. Not sure what work/carreer/business has to do with dating, though.
[–]8017350 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because he, due to hard work, becomes rich, or well looking possibly, or famous, or high status, etc...
Work? Yes. Business? Not necessarily. I invite you to broaden your horizon.
Ofcourse I understand that for exmaple LeBron James almost everybody "successful", due to his hard work and talent, has women chasing him 24/7.
There.
You're paranoid for thinking i was trying to troll or sarcasms you. I was being serious and sincere in myr reply.
Calm down a little. Slow down, it's not a competition and chances have it we're not running out of time really soon, either. Could happen, any time, true, but so far so good. Feel free to re-read my previous replies until you are confident you got the message.
Not sure what work/carreer/business has to do with dating, though.
Then you have a lot to learn. You'll get there with effort. I invite you to broaden your horizon, again.
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