This will be the advice I will be giving to my son one day. I love him dearly. We get along very good. But Making babies no more rational, we don’t have farms anymore so no need for men power on the corn field. We don’t have those old family wars, so why should he. Cost of growing a kid will only be huge load while his rights to see his kid can be taken from him. It’s better for him to be selfish and live his life freely. If he wants to do otherwise, he should but I want him to know that it doesn’t worth the hassle.