Hello, all. I'm trying to understand the difference between expectations on a man and a woman.

An eligible bachelor is someone who is: 1) single, 2) educated, 3) has a good job and a salary, 4) has some material resources such as a home and a car, 5) is a gentleman outside the bedroom and a lion inside the bedroom, 6) has a reputation/status in society, 7) is 6'+ and has a muscular toned body

An eligible bachelorette is someone who is: 1) single, 2) educated and 3) pretty with a slim body

I think these are pretty much the expectations in the current society. Is that right? If so, how is this a fair deal for men?