Something society will try to shame you for is being a man. It has all but been made illegal to have balls in Western society. The media, government, schools, and just about everything else constantly harps on how evil/bad/awful masculinity is and men are. Nearly every problem is blamed on men. Women are given the go ahead to do as they please while men and masculinity are opposed at every turn. Put simply modern society hates masculinity. The reason being men (meaning masculine men) are the only ones who can throw a monkey wrench into the whole corrupt system bringing it crashing down and ushering in a new age of freedom, but that’s a topic for another time.

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A man who embraces his masculinity and makes no apologies is a rare find. Be a man like this. When someone tries to shame you for your masculinity tell them either to fuck off or shrug your shoulders. The point is you aren’t changing for anyone especially for some punk who wants to drink the same cool aid that they are. A male who won’t bend to the will of others will stand out in the best way possible. Because he will be a man.

“You don’t want to get married?”, “You think woman should submit to men?” I’ve heard all of these said before generally in very accusatory tones yet never have I apologized for one view that I hold (and never will I). When I held the frame those that shot these accusatory words generally left with smiles on their faces. Because like I said before they encountered one of the rarest creatures in Western civilization, a man. Never apologize for going your own way. You’re a man hold the frame and be unapologetic. You see when you don’t give in to the reality of others but stay true to your own, you do a couple of very important things. One you establish yourself as the dominant reality (as you always should), two you show that you have balls, and three you show that you stand by your convictions.

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Put simply you don’t change for others and be unapologetic for who you are.