Or that's how I see it. Not necessarily counting when the biological father is dead before step dad steps in or when a man goes to an adoption clinic or something and adopts a child from an unknown family or father's a child from abusive family member etc.

I'm saying guy meets woman with child who's father is still alive and well and steps in and raises that man's orgasm.

I can't see it any other way but desperate. They think the woman is a unicorn. There are none like her and they'd be glad to do anything to be with her.

I know there are some good ones out there. Very good to the children and beneficial to their lives but it doesn't change the fact that they are push-overs.

I see it as something beneath me. I would never do.