Eye-opening

marone76 · 2016-11-22T11:37:29+00:00

I'm not going to share personal info other than i'm a 40M but i'll tell you why i feel the way i do about women now.

An ex (32F) from a few years ago. About 2 hours after the doctor told us she was pregnant, she was drinking and taking xanax and god knows what else. Basically celebrating by getting fucked up.

Another ex (23F) was talking to any other guy she could because she admitted she had low self-esteem and needed the attention because i was busy working at my small business, for us and our future. Within a week of me breaking it off, she was hanging out at my good mates house. They are now married and have a child. Or maybe she has a child and he has been led to believe he does too. Not sure.

Most recently, i was seeing a 19F for about two months. We had classes together. We never interacted or even spoke to each other at school. She posted something in our study group on facebook. We became fb friends and got to talking.

From her fb page, i could see she was still with her high school bf. Not once did she ever mention him or the fact that she even had a bf. I never brought it up. I know better. After a week, she asks me to meet her for a drink. I check her fb page. Overnight she had gone from in a relationship to single.

Didn't take much to figure out what was happening. Mainly because i'd seen it all far too many times before. I'd personally experienced it as well. The classic new guy friend that's nobody to worry about.

I was spot-on. I had been her target for a while it seems. And her poor bf never saw it coming.

So we started seeing each other and within a few days it started. The same script and strategy that EVERY SINGLE FEMALE i had ever been with had used.

The same questions, the same statements, the same fishing for information about finances and the exact same script/strategy that has been passed down by mothers to daughters in an infinity loop.

The things that the red pill says, beginning with shit tests, comfort tests, manipulation and hypergamy are so glaringly obvious that i could actually see the thought process (hamster wheel) occurring and i new exactly what was coming and when. All the ex's, different generations of females, used all the same lines, the same 'game' in the same timeframes.

More importantly, the same drama and the same problems in all their lives. Never their fault. Never their responsibility. They always tried to lump it on me, despite them understanding the cause and knowing the solution. As the "man and the protector", their problems were my responsibility. My problems were always mine though and i should man up and take care of it.

Mind you, these were competent, independent women. All very strong until they felt comfortable enough to just get me to do it because it's 'too hard and i thought you loved me and you should treat me like a princess'. Seriously, it's tiring. If i wanted more responsibility, i'd have a kid or more pets. I'm busy taking care of my shit. Carrying my weight. Slowly, ever so slowly, carrying their weight too.

Before they had resolved any of their problems, they had caused new problems. Like an untrained puppy that just can't stop shitting on the carpet.

Why, after all of that, would anyone choose a relationship over being single? It's certainly not fun and rewarding. It's stressfull and expensive without even spending a cent on gifts and jewellery to 'prove how much i love them'.

I stagnate instead of growing as a person. Personal growth does not come from carrying another person through life. Funnily enough, personal growth is about doing it yourself for the experience. The women i mentioned earlier haven't grown personally since they left high school. Sure their careers grew and they accrued material things like houses and cars and husbands (lol). Some even have children now. But they have not personally/mentally grown up. Still the same old drama and problems. Not even difficult ones. The same shit since high school. But for myself, playing the first level of the same game over 25 years means i can pass it in the minimal amount of time with zero damage without even breaking a sweat or paying full attention.

I don't hate anybody, women included. I'm disappointed that this is what it has evolved to over the generations.

ikhwan_arif · 2016-11-22T10:05:48+00:00

Don't be lazy, there's ton of personal anecdotes to find if you just scroll down and look for them.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2016-11-22T10:35:55+00:00

You can also read and such.. People post experiences on a daily basis, so just click the threads

wildfireboat · 2016-11-22T17:49:54+00:00

No you won't get shit. READ what has ALREADY been posted here and then fuck off.

2016-11-22T14:46:52+00:00

You do know this is a man's sub for men not women.

801735 · 2016-11-22T09:58:11+00:00

Our leadress does not allow that.

JStheHammer · 2016-11-22T12:27:25+00:00

Are you a woman?

Title	Eye-opening
Author	rose-e
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	November 22, 2016 9:53 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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