If there is maybe one positive aspect about being divorced and broke, its being able to clearly see who actually cares about you. Its seeing how socially ostracized you really are and noticing who sticks around anyway. I've had plenty of friends prior to my divorce but after everything was said and done, literally all but one took off out of my life. I do have other buddies but I consider them acquaintances rather than friends and they're mostly blue pilled to the point of being hopeless so there isn't any persuading them to seeing life from your angle. Family members aren't an exception here either. I haven't had any family contact me after my divorce for anything more than moving furniture or serving as a social media prop. I have a brother who is gay and I've always been proactively supportive of him and his significant other. Both of them are very materialistic and judgmental of my situation and during thanksgiving dinner my brother's husband more or less called me out as broke white trash. I just couldn't believe it. He has no idea of what Ive been through but here he is running his mouth about my financial situation and how I live. I kind of forgive him because he has zero clue as to what some men go through, but its just like..."Fuck dude, its not that hard to figure out! WTF?!" I'm up to my eyes in debt and child support and while he's renting a beach house by combining incomes with my brother, I'm living in a shitty broken down house because my income is marathon halved. I make twice what he does before support and shit. I'm just exhausted of being supportive of people only to get fucked in return.

Even my dad. After my divorce my dad essentially disowned me. He's a story I could go on for hours about but he's just the most blue pilled man Ive ever met. Everything is my fault regardless of him knowing or not about the stunts my ex would pull. Every conversation with him is a session of berating me about this or that. My decisions to buy car parts for used cars I drive rather than financing them. My job. My girlfriends. My kids. My custody arrangement etc...Everything I do is wrong.

My mom believes that only single mothers have a hard time in this world and I just need to Man up. I'm a grown man. How could I be mistreated and have a hard time with anything?

My social media seems to have aids. It smells like divorced guy and no one touches it. It depresses the hell out of me.

Ive been divorced for eight years and have five years left with support. I have a VERY good relationship with my kids despite their mother. She's not an alienator so I lucked out there, but her new husband didn't work for over five years and lived on my support which pissed me the fuck off. My dad refuses to interact with my social media but every time my ex posts a new family portrait with her new husband, guess who likes it on FB? Yup. Your son is pulling down close to six figures before support and he's the loser but his unemployed replacement is the real man huh? Lol..I swear to god my dad is the biggest cuck on this planet.

Point being, for the most part everyone either abandoned me socially or just waits in the wings for anything I have left to be squeezed of. Ive been divorced for eight years and have five left with support. I make decent money and have been avoiding going into business for myself until the support is over or I find a solid plan to shelter my assets from my ex. I'm not an idiot and am relatively capable in many arenas. Ive got a VERY good picture of who remained loyalty me through this process. My best friend since third grade being one of them. If I ever recover and make something of myself I'm going to hook him up and maybe allocate some of my estate to his kids down the line. The rest? I'm going to rub everything in their face Dan Bilzerian style.