I've been separated for about 2 years now and after my ex being extremely spiteful and difficult, her lawyer finally talked some sense into her and we meditated yesterday and came to a good settlement. She was so scared of being forced to move back to our city with the kids that she agreed to just about everything I wanted in return for letting her stay in her county. I'm literally walking out the door right now to meet my lawyer at the court to sign the agreement. Wish me luck gents!