After years of being treated like a doormat for these women to use me as an emotional tampon to cry on my shoulders about how abusive her ex boyfriend Chad was to her, I have finally took action like a MAN and told this woman off last night. So to sum things up... About 3 years ago, I met a woman through a mutual friend of mine downtown and some other friends and we all hung out together at McDonald’s a couple blocks away and we all socialize together. She seems very nice, doesn’t have social media and dresses appropriately and is old school unlike most western modern women. We talk occasionally whenever we happen to encounter at this main intersection where I usually go to see other familiar acquaintances that we know. 3 years later during the New Year’s Eve last week, she finally got in touch with me again and she found me online on Facebook ( through her friends account ) and message if I remember that time when we first met through that mutual friend so we exchanged numbers through text and then decided to hang out during the New Years. What I didn’t realize when we texted, she asked me if I know some other dude who happened to be her EX boyfriend and she shared her story about how violent he was to her so she filed a restraining order against him. Turns out this Chad never had a father figure growing up and is an emotional wreck. After she mentioned that to me I should’ve ended it right there and ignored her but I let my guard down and allowed my FEELINGS to get in the way expecting that she could be a potential to possibly be a Date. So we schedule to hang out and we did and we had a nice decent night together. She seems like a nice girl until she kept rambling on to me about her ex which really annoyed me and I realize she was using me as an emotional tampon to vent her problems to me and probably using me to protect her from him because she’s living in fear and after several days of offering her advice I then proceed to take course of action which she texted me “ Hey haven’t heard from you in a while, anything ok? “, I replied “ NO “ and she went silent “.... “ and then after that I said “ I’m just gonna get straight to the point “, in which she replied “ is what?. I told her “ I honestly don’t care about your pitiful story so don’t ever message me again “, and later had her BLOCKED.

For years I have put up with these women using me as an emotional tampon and decided I have had enough. I was placed in the 3rd wheel position by hanging out with this former friend who was a Chad. Still living with his parents, smoking weed, immature and living like he’s still a high schooler and letting his gfs vent her problems to me about how he treated her and several other women who I was interested in that did the same thing and wasted all my precious time.

I just got very frustrated and am pissed off putting up with this and SNAPPED. I mean I don’t want to be an asshole but when push comes to shove you just gotta stand up for yourself and know when to tell the TRUTH. Not to mention, she told me her bf was a MGTOW as well and thought this movement was weird and scary and advise me that I shouldn’t become one and told me how she wasn’t a feminist. Kinda hard for me to believe and I don’t buy into it because they’re all the same and she’s a woman so she wouldn’t understand. I totally thought there was potential in this one but I was wrong.

I learned something from this experience though. Whenever a woman starts sharing about what her EX boyfriend did is when you need to cut it off and move on. Sorry need to get this off my Chest.