I have been borderline MGTOW for a couple years now. My last girlfriend was this skinny blonde chick, then exposed her increasingly snotty, entitled, feminist attitude the more I got to know her. My experience with her turned me off dating for a long time as I found most girls were like her.

Then I met this girl at my last job. She is well liked, smart, and cool. She goes out of her way to do things for me without expecting anything in return, but isn't a pushover. She has a lot of great personal qualities, but the trouble is, she is "fat". Not chubby, but unfortunately large. She has a pretty face, good teeth, and clean hair though.

We are going to a concert next week, and I can tell she wants me. Like, as long as nothing bad happens at the concert, and I make a move, it's going down. If it goes down, she will get attached.

I feel like my life experiences have led me to change what I want from a partner, but people could see it as "beta male settling". So I thought, who better to ask than MGTOW? Please share your thoughts.