Surely the only way that romantic relationships can be stable and secure today is to take decisions of the head - find a partner who is of pairing genes (with total seriousness). How can there be true parity in a relationship if the partner is of different gene type?

That is what is fundamentally disturbing about the excessive amounts of makeup and fashion that my generation have swallowed up, that it is actually blocking their 'natural' truth, therefore it is just covering up the process of selection.