Older dude several years distant from divorce after 20 years. From fully blue pilled to fully red. The ex worked me over but good. But O will share with you one silver lining\unicorn detail. She had a family business. I worked in it & added value. Hence post-split I got a golden parachute and spousal support for a while. Now GMOW. Sort of started that way by instinct after a few post-divorce relationships that were so obviously flawed it was essentially p&d with an expiration date. Last one called me up & told me I needed to get tested. Lucky for me I missed her infectious stage. Done with that shit. Life is good. My vice is TRAVEL, lots of it. It's a big wide world, explore, test your physical limits, grow your mind & body. I have genuine friends all over, but when I want a quiet night at home it's all mine.