Hello. I'm new around here.

silive · 2018-06-13T14:40:25+00:00

Which part of being a committed bachelor don't you understand?

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2018-06-13T14:59:17+00:00

First of all welcome and second there is alot to read look at the stickies or just the normal post here everyday they will answer almost all you questions. But I will answers your questions out of my personal experience.

I never told anyone I'm mgtow, I did share some ideas on relationships and girlfiends/women with friends and my close family, but I always represent it as more of an idea and a view on society. Never like a principle I fully embrace. Also I care limited of what they think, but they already accept the fact how I live my life so they do not care aslong as I let them lead theirs, which I ofcourse do.
No to both, marriage and childeren seem to much of a hassle these days, also I could not stand the fact of losing my childeren because of divorce, or lose money/assest through divorce or a bad breakup ect. I might if I really want childeren try to adopt or find some otherway, but the whole marriage house baby thing is not something I want in these socitial conditions.
Well you need to be able to accept some harsh facts, some men cant or wont do it, other might find it easier. I dont think it has to do with a certain personality, some men find MGTOW easier to accept and learn, others find it harder or keep trying to find the right women. In general I do not really care about this, I found it and I accept it in my way so everybody else can do what they want I do my thing.
I do not know at this point and time, I guess a big prt would be a fair family court, and no longer paying for your spouse simply because you were in a relationship for a long time. In this time of equallity I will treat women as such therefore I would not provide them nd only for my childeren. Then again to much hassle and if there is a large chance I lose my childeren I rather wont. Also I enjoy single life way to much, so much freedom and lesser exspenses that I rather be like this forever. But ofcourse if I fall in love and all the problems men in relationships face nowadays (cheating, dead bedroom, divorce, los of childeren and assets, working to provide everything, cheating) would not exist I might give it a shot. Ofcourse for those things not to exisist you basically have to change female nature or the entire society which is impossible in my opinion.
Not one big thing, mostly just getting used a shit ton by girls, the feeling that they could just use me and expect it to be ok. Also the rise of femisim and the idea that it is a crime to be a man pissed me off that I started to trust women less and less. And very simple the lies that women tell about how they are not just as terrible (more likley more terrible) then men. So the constant, women do not fall just on looks, if you are nice you will find a girl, women do not care about money, women are more emotional and trust worty ect ect. Ofcourse this came after reading alot about MGTOW. Also I read the manipulated men which really opens your eyes.

Personal story, I started to embrace rational thought more and more, and realize why the fuck would I spend all that time on women simply because I want sex? Ofcourse being in love you do not care about that, which led me to the conclusion that being in love is a irrational state. I rather be rational and lead a free, and mostly care free life, then try to impress women (which is almost impossible). So I do no longer care about their opinions and try to love myself as much as I can. This will bring such a calmness and sense of freedom I never thought I could experience.

dghow · 2018-06-13T14:40:14+00:00

- They don't know and I'll keep it that way as long as possible, dodging questions with empty statements. I wouldn't care about their opinion.

- No

- Everyone is able to go his own way in principle. I guess you need a certain strength to ignore expectations. But other than that, MGTOW is about living the way you want, hence Own Way, so this should be open to pretty much everyone.

- I can't see any circumstance to make me consider this

- Ending and aftermath of my last relationship. Search my posts if you want.

MountainOfTurds · 2018-06-13T15:57:34+00:00

My parents fully support my lifestyle. My father think it's a fantastic life plan.
The entire point is never getting married or having kids.
MGTOW seems to attract all kinds of men, however I think that the following are over representative relative to the general population: Introverts who feel less need for external validation than the average person. Men who care about morality and justice. Men who value freedom. Men who have worked hard for what they have. MGTOW is unsuitable for unassertive men who need a lot of external validation.
I'm willing to have short term relationships as long as we don't cohabit. For marriage or kids, I would need a guarantee that I can walk away at any time with 10 million dollars, and repeal all misandrist laws.
Common patterns in mating behavior in women with almost no exceptions, even with friends' experiences. Being an extremely justice-oriented person. Being an extremely honest person who runs away from any liar. Knowing no woman would stand by me in hard times. The extreme degree of promiscuity in most modern women.. and the fact that they lie about it mercilessly.. their callous disregard for their own and others' health. The high expectations and neediness of most women while they have little to offer. The risk that a woman can ruin your entire life, freedom, and capacity to provide for yourself by mere accusation. The attraction of more interesting and rewarding pursuits.

Good luck with your school project. Lol

PanderjitSingh_k · 2018-06-13T15:01:52+00:00

Many mgtow are so because of their experiences with females. Asking if they plan to go down the same ambush & boobytrap laden path again suggests a fundamental misunderstanding on your part.

Mgtow comes from experienced middle-aged men not incels.

Saix17 · 2018-06-13T15:02:36+00:00

Welcome.

Family doesn't know, if they were to ask I would tell them though. I simply don't care what they think to be honest.
MGTOW philosophy is mainly against marriage and cohabitation because of the legal repercussions. I myself will not be having kids, it was a personal choice before I even decided to go MGTOW. Quite a few MGTOWS do have kids and a ex wife, one of the reasons why they decided to go MGTOW I would say.
From what I have seen so far it seems to be pretty diverse. Women don't discriminate when it comes to screwing over men therefore there are many types of men here.
At this point I am not sure anything will make me consider it. A start would be equal legal rights when it comes to custody and equal punishment for women when it comes to crime. Also no more assuming that women are innocent just because they are a woman. That would leave the issues with how women are in general, not sure if that can ever be fixed completely.
Yes there was. Experience was a big part of it, years and years of relationships. The last straw for me was a 5 year relationship where I proposed to my girl, about two months before the wedding I caught her cheating with one of my friends that I knew since high school. She was supposed to be out of town for some kind of conference so I went over to my buddies house with some pizza and beer to cheer the guy up since he had a rough couple of weeks. Found them both on the couch. Didn't say a word. Just went home, packed up my shit, and left her high and dry. Told my landlord that I left and would be paying my last month of rent even though I moved, so he kicked the bitch out for me and I was free again. Took me awhile to recover but once I did I never looked back. I pump and dump on occasion but I will never allow a woman to be the center of my life again.

Zeliow · 2018-06-13T15:44:27+00:00

What does your family think about your choice of MGTOW?

They think I'll find someone eventually.

Do you care what they think?

no

Do you plan on eventually getting married

no

and having kids?

If it's possible to solo adopt.

Do you think people who practice MGTOW need to have a certain personality? Is MGTOW unsuitable for some men?

I don't think highly extraverted personality's can stand it.

What would have to happen for you to consider having a relationship with a female or having kids?

I don't think there is a way back.

Was there a specific event that caused you to begin practicing MGTOW?

My first (and last) couple of dates got me thinking.

jkarovskaya · 2018-06-13T16:35:44+00:00

After a while, your family will get the message that you are not interesting in dating, women, marriage, etc. You just have to stand strong on that point, and they will give up bugging you.

Got married once, divorced with kids, ABSOLUTELY Never marrying, no effing way.

MGTOW is not limited to "personality", it's about the freedom to live life on your own terms because of RedPill knowledge.

There is no way I would ever consider having a relationship, or dating, It's WAY TOO MUCH WORK, and takes too much time, energy, money, and committment.

DangZagnut · 2018-06-13T17:44:28+00:00

What does your family think about your choice of MGTOW? Do you care what they think?

Don't care. In their defense I've never once dated in front of them, and they've never asked.

Do you plan on eventually getting married and having kids?

I'm sure I will shortly after Alzheimers has set in.

Do you think people who practice MGTOW need to have a certain personality? Is MGTOW unsuitable for some men?

Yes, as in, if you're a product of religion or a single mother, blue pilled, worshipping women, feeling it's your requirement in life to scrape and kneel and serve women, then your brain will reject MGTOW as "misogyny" or tell you to "man up". Due to upbringing there's simply no way to it to be acceptable with enough brain washing.

What would have to happen for you to consider having a relationship with a female or having kids?

Heat death of the universe.

Was there a specific event that caused you to begin practicing MGTOW?

Attaining the age of reason.

DanTheMGTOW · 2018-06-13T19:31:27+00:00

There is no formal structure in MGTOW. It is an ideology.

I can answer these questions, and someone else can answer these questions, and we have opposing thoughts... yet we are both Men Going There Own Way. Going Your Own Way is different for everyone.

Cruise the subreddit and find stories. I find good content on here.

Title	Hello. I'm new around here.
Author	YoloSwiggins21
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	June 13, 2018 2:25 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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