Help me, MGTOW.

palaceposy6706 · 2016-04-06T23:57:22+00:00

You just let go....

http://cdn.zenpencils.com/wp-content/uploads/2013-03-26-river.jpg

Two monks were making a pilgrimage to venerate the relics of a great Saint. During the course of their journey, they came to a river where they met a beautiful young woman -- an apparently worldly creature, dressed in expensive finery and with her hair done up in the latest fashion. She was afraid of the current and afraid of ruining her lovely clothing, so asked the brothers if they might carry her across the river.

The younger and more exacting of the brothers was offended at the very idea and turned away with an attitude of disgust. The older brother didn't hesitate, and quickly picked the woman up on his shoulders, carried her across the river, and set her down on the other side. She thanked him and went on her way, and the brother waded back through the waters.

The monks resumed their walk, the older one in perfect equanimity and enjoying the beautiful countryside, while the younger one grew more and more brooding and distracted, so much so that he could keep his silence no longer and suddenly burst out, "Brother, we are taught to avoid contact with women, and there you were, not just touching a woman, but carrying her on your shoulders!"

The older monk looked at the younger with a loving, pitiful smile and said, "Brother, I set her down on the other side of the river; you are still carrying her."

good_man_gone · 2016-04-06T23:38:17+00:00

Showing no emotion is being a robot. You dont want that. Look soar45 no one is pressuring you here to be someone you dont feel comfortable being :)

Take a deep breath and ask yourself: Why am I doing this? Let that sink in for a moment. What do I want?

Dude nobody is going to drive a bus over you, me or anybody else for wanting to get laid and "enjoying" a womans company. One small but decisive step at a time. The point here is helping each other out by sharing experiences and giving advice to each other.

Take it easy :) And no we have no secret handshake. Check out the posts around here and hang out with the guys and have a good time.

TVTestPattern · 2016-04-07T00:01:03+00:00

Same way you get to Carnegie Hall man...

csehszlovakze · 2016-04-07T00:15:03+00:00

MGTOW still doesn't equal celibacy, so if you're doing that only to fit in, just stop. also, give it time, you sound like someone between the anger and the bargaining phase.

Soar45 · 2016-04-07T00:26:04+00:00

Is it true that females will always tell each other what so-and-so said, or is this just highschool kids?

If this is true then maybe I can say this

"A man is a strong army of one, but women are a weak army of many" if that makes sense.

NYCsOwn · 2016-04-07T01:57:39+00:00

I still quite enjoy the company of women. many women.

the difference is, not allowing yourself to fall victim to their bullshit. I'm always open about what I expect in the very beginning. the moment it strays from that, I cut the cord. why allow yourself to be a puppet to someone else's desires?

it's quite easy actually to walk away when you realize that someone sees you as a tool to get what they want while giving little to nothing back. as long as you're wary to the tricks, lies & general fuckery...& can spot it coming before it arrives, you'll be just fine.

bonusfruit · 2016-04-07T18:23:17+00:00

The most risky and painful way is the most efficient way unfortunately: try relationships.

IM NOT ADVOCATING THIS. I'm just saying it works. After you see them for what they are you'll be able to genuinely say fuck it

Raiden627 · 2016-04-07T23:54:02+00:00

Don't give up your sex drive (it's impossible) unless you're much older. Use girls for hookups and keep them within arms reach but make sure you stay.

If you're trying to keep your emotions in check in regards to them keep in mind that relationships are shit. I know it's hard, I go through periods of time like this. Currently going through this right now.

Title	Help me, MGTOW.
Author	Soar45
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	April 6, 2016 11:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/4doay4/help_me_mgtow/
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