How do I stop Simping?

the1whowaits · 2020-06-05T01:38:14+00:00

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American__Jedi · 2020-06-05T02:07:02+00:00

There's a lot of escort sites but i recommend eroticmonkey.ch and theeroticreview.com because they have reviews that tell you which girls are actually real. There's a LOT of fake ads out there where you might get ripped off or have your time wasted. NEVER pay in advance no matter what story they tell you. If they don't accept cash in person it's a rip off. BE CAREFUL

the1whowaits · 2020-06-05T01:37:15+00:00

Also, please don't upvote this. I don't want a lot of attention for this. Just hoping for some help or advice.

kriskros18 · 2020-06-05T03:07:11+00:00

Fap more. Jokes aside, fap more.

brachial1 · 2020-06-05T03:45:10+00:00

I always look through a stoic lense. You can't control where the "ugly stick" lands but you can control your presentation. Take care of yourself, be confident and when you talk to women don't think "will this person like me" rather think "Am I going to like this person"

Userman007898 · 2020-06-05T06:38:53+00:00

Just buy a fleshlight.

Way better than a real pussy bro.

You'll never go back to organic again!

Stedelijkepuin · 2020-06-05T01:59:54+00:00

> I eventually succumb to my testosterone and desires and begin simping to these women.

Dont do this (all from my experience ofc). They know if they want to fuck you and no means no for them. If you get rejected by women A, immediatley try women B. it may sound strange to us, but women have no problem with this, they actually expect men to behave that way.

> The problem is (as I have sadly been told to many time) I was beaten with the ugly stick

Yes, and in contrast to other guys here I will tell you women actually dont think you are hot, otherwhise you wouldnt have a hard time to get laid, except you are shy.

> Two decent sized cities around me. Yet I have no idea how to find a woman to help me handle my needs. Any advice?

The best women you meet through social circles or hobbies. You have the adventage they trust you (which is a big deal for women) and second if you have common interest there is a better chance that the realtionship wont turn into hell.

But good luck it´s not easy for average looking men ngl.

Spurius85 · 2020-06-05T17:16:21+00:00

I'm pretty familiar with the pay for play scene, though I've been on hiatus for about 2 years (Monk Mode) I've kept up. I would be hesitant to encourage you in this direction because it becomes very easy to seek validation in these types of encounters. These women will treat you very well, at least, far better than you are used to being treated, but make no mistake it's a character that they play. Men who cannot separate the act of sex and seeking acceptance/validation are far more likely to end up victims of scams, cons, and blackmail. How? They tend to avoid sex workers that treat the relationship as purely transactional and seek out those that give the illusion of something more. The girls use this illusion to extract high amounts of money with very little in return. Guys who understand the transactional nature of this seek out the best ROI and are happier for it.

So you need to do some soul searching. Are you doing this because you want to feel desired? or even loved? or are you doing this because you want to get laid?

I can give you a general overview (In Private), but keep in mind a few key things:

This is illegal everywhere in the United States (except for a handful of counties in Nevada), which means it carries with it the risk of being arrested and generally your mugshot will be on the news. Whether you care about this or not depends entirely on your personal situation. I imagine in Finance it would matter if you had this on your record. You can be smart about it, but you can never remove the risk entirely. By the way, services in those Nevada Counties are extremely expensive and the service subpar. (From what I've heard from others).

It is legal, however, in quite a few countries in the world. This carries with it it's own level of personal risk (Safety), but it might be valuable to you because you would not be breaking the law. Obviously, you would only be able to incorporate this strategy during your vacation time, which comes but twice a year for most people. This may not be enough for you or it may be plenty.

It is far more expensive than most people realize (in the US) because of its illegal nature. It is fully possible that the cost of this can derail other personal finance goals that you may have.

It can be soul crushing to realize that you are only valued for what you can offer in terms of cold hard cash, but if you are red pilled, then you should already understand that this is the nature of the beast.

Feel free to message me if you would like to know more. Regardless, I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors and I hope you find whatever it is that will make you content in life.

Medkutthoratboy · 2020-06-05T01:41:22+00:00

Bro just take care of yourself and when it come to sex you can book a hooker thats all and remember never let a women fool you they just want your money

oozzoonnee · 2020-06-05T02:11:38+00:00

I'm in the same position as you

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-06-05T13:10:39+00:00

Dude, you got money! Hire a couple of hot escorts(guaranteed sex). Once you've nutted in a few, you won't be simping for those office sluts like you did before. It's certainly cheaper than to arrange a date with them. That is if they even accept to go on a date with you(no promise of sex here).

Stedelijkepuin · 2020-06-05T01:40:13+00:00

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Title	How do I stop Simping?
Author	the1whowaits
Upvotes	28
Comments	20
Date	June 5, 2020 1:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/gwv29e/how_do_i_stop_simping/
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