One thing that I can't seem to get Iver is finsding confidence and security in myself. I feel like I'm not good enough. Ive had dates and a couple short lived relationships. I've had sex. Yet for some reason I still feel like I'm not good enough to be loved and so I don't love myself.

I realize I shouldn't care about whether I'm good enough to be loved since the whole concept is bullshit but I still have these feelings of doubt and insecurity.

Mgotw, how do you remain secure and content with yourself in a society that values your worth on your relationship status?