How do you handle Relationships?

DangZagnut · 2019-11-08T12:59:06+00:00

Although I’ve put all that shit on pause these days, I just never had anything above the casual phase.

The only fun, enjoyable time with a woman is during the honeymoon stage of a relationship because everyone is on their best behavior and I’m learning about someone new. The sex is brand new, etc.

I don’t care about who they sleep with because I don’t commit to them, I don’t have loyalty for them, and I only care about what they do when they’re with me.

I don’t expect loyalty because women don’t do that. Why would I? My ego isn’t based on stupid ideas of monogamy, that’s the ancient model like marriage and other dumb ideas.

Maybe they did shit before, but that shit is meaningless now.

You don’t put trust in a woman, you fuck and leave, or you fuck for awhile then leave. Any relationship over six months will go bad like warm milk so just dump it before it spoils.

You have shot to do right now at your age, and any sort of relationship will fuck that up, as you saw. So keep it light, keep it fun, and stop trying Tibet in so deep with these whores.

DorionBorstien · 2019-11-08T13:12:46+00:00

I live with an ex-girlriend. It's a long story so I'll sum up: ex-wife divorce raped me and I became homeless. After 3 years, this one offered me a place to stay since we knew each other from a long time ago and had just reconnected. I got a job, went to college, got two degrees in electronics, and landed a career. Like it or not, I'm bonded to this woman for life. It's just how I am with one who saves my life.

Anyway, we are friends and roommates now. She has her own career and makes as much as I do. We are both single and occasionally FWB. I get everything I need from her relationship wise with the added benefit of having my own bedroom. The shared income is really awesome too.

Silberschwanz · 2019-11-08T14:03:24+00:00

German guy here, living in eastern europe currently.

I get your problem but I feel it is easier to go mgtow in Germany. Most girls are ugly as fuck and very unpleasant to be with. Also they have millions of new cocks from third world countries to bang now and we all know these dudes dont care about STDs...

However, I cannot give you any advice since I myself wasn't able to control my urges to bang even those ugly german slut beasts back then... I had to get through it until around 30 when the fucking urges finally decreased.

DeWey05 · 2019-11-08T12:20:01+00:00

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idcawom · 2019-11-08T13:19:07+00:00

Hey! Schön einen mgtow aus Deutschland zu treffen! Ich habe das Gefühl, dass es auch in Deutschland größer wird.

Daman_1985 · 2019-11-08T13:34:26+00:00

In my case it's simple:

I don't have any relationship.

NoCharism · 2019-11-08T15:06:50+00:00

ayy einer aus deutschland, grüße dich kollege!

Ach und ich pflege keine freundschaften mit frauen, auch wenn denken sollte, dass ich welche haben müsste.

Ich denke das verhalten meiner mutter war mir schon mehr als genug lol

4LW4YS0NG34R · 2019-11-08T17:12:59+00:00

Bro, for me it is pretty simple. I keep my life very busy, i wake up 06:00am and go to bed around midnight, i fill my day with gym, work and university, focus in improving myself every day and having the mindset of a beast, all i can think about is related to improvement areas and since my day is so filled i dont have even the time to cultivate a relationship with a girl. Every energy of mine is dedicated to a better performance at every aspect of my life.

[deleted] · 2019-11-08T17:29:25+00:00

I handle my cash.

I handle my collection of books.

I handle my whiskey glass in my hand.

I handle my cigar in the other hand.

But one thing I don't handle, is relationships.

edeljokaa · 2019-11-08T15:09:30+00:00

I'm another MGTOW from Germany and I have a similar background. I had three relationships in my teens now that I'm 26 I haven't even thought of women as potential partners in years.

For me it's mostly not trusting them. Being average looking and coming from a poor family I never really had a chance with the hot ones. So in my teens I thought "Maybe if I go for the ugly or average ones then they won't be that superficial". That turned out to be wrong.

After three relationships I stopped focussing on wet holes and instead focussed on my hobbies and my career. All of my friends from school are still working towards their university degree while I dropped out early and learned programming. They all met their girlfriends at university and it's freightening how much they changed with those women in their lives. We used to be a group of nerds so I guess they just couldn't resist the urge to jump on the first females that opened their legs for them. Now I've been living by myself for almost 8 years and still loving it. I have all the time and money I could need without nagging or constantly going out.

It probably doesn't help that I never really enjoyed sex that much. Most of the time it just feels like a chore to me.

I'm sure if you give it some more time inner peace will come to you as well and your focus will shift towards your own goals instead of what nature or society expects of you.

MrMagtow · 2019-11-08T20:20:37+00:00

Stop thinking that women will act like you or other men do. They are not men. They do not act with love, loyalty, honor or compassion.

Women's PRIMARY OBJECTIVE is to produce offspring. They want to have sex, they will open their legs for Chad/Tyrone/Akira - the 20% of men.

You are a BETA. You are BETABUX. Stop trying to make women act like you expect men to, and ignore them. Focus on yourself. Move along. AWALT.

Thaniii · 2019-11-08T14:15:25+00:00

Whenever you get the fantasy, go use a flashlight. Boom..enlightenment

Frozzenbanana · 2019-11-08T20:28:42+00:00

Coming from Northern Europe(Norway) myself living In Germany now.Great to see fellow MGTOW bros.Its easy being redpilled in Germany though

HotAndColdSlaw · 2019-11-09T00:28:29+00:00

You can have a relationship with a woman if you want. But, you have to have it on your terms. But, you have to understand that women are not trustworthy.

There are huge risks involved. 1. STDs 2. Pregnancy and child support 3. All of the emotional stuff that can well up in a relationship (even if you don't intend it).

For me, it is not worth it, but you can do what you want.

ro_gtow · 2019-11-08T15:50:20+00:00

What helps for me is just putting myself out there, seeing what a shitshow it is quickly makes u see mgtow is better

ro_gtow · 2019-11-08T15:51:16+00:00

Watch toni der assi

transcis · 2019-11-08T17:25:17+00:00

Do you remember the best time you had sex? How does it compare to average? Just remember this is as good as it will ever get.

ken_oath_mate · 2019-11-09T12:57:01+00:00

Sometimes i look at women (goddamn those human nature...) and i have fantasys and would like to date women again

Bad news: those feelings don't diminish much as you get older. I'm twice your age, and if I see a sweet little thing in a summer dress, I definitely have desires to do things to her that her father would not approve of.

It takes mental training to continually reminder yourself that the desire is mostly animal instinct wrapped up in social normalization, and the bad effects of dating outweigh the good.

Title	How do you handle Relationships?
Author	mgtowyoungdude
Upvotes	28
Comments	33
Date	November 8, 2019 12:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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