How to go monk mode?

debanked · 2019-07-27T09:25:38+00:00

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peguy2000 · 2019-07-27T09:29:32+00:00

You go monk mode by eliminating any desire to chase women. It has to come within, you have to legimitaly not care about a pussy or a woman

That doesnt mean become a soyboy, even if you have high t or whatever - you can eliminate any urges by having complete control of your mind

Shimakaze4 · 2019-07-27T11:20:54+00:00

Not sure if it makes my well being better, but I sure feel better not bothering to play the social games and jump through hoops just to access a wet hole these days. Monk for 9 years and counting here, the longer you are monk the easier it gets. For me, I just got sick of the whole process of dating, it became a chore. Most women are vapid, uninteresting and just damned annoying. Last date I went out on she was a chore to talk to, one word answers etc and it wasn't like I'd just met this woman, I'd known her a couple of years. We actually did split the bill and I probably could have fucked her as she was dropping hints on the way back home, but I just couldn't be bothered anymore.

DangZagnut · 2019-07-27T13:40:29+00:00

You don't need a guide. There's very little work involved.

don't marry
don't cohabitate
don't date bitches or give any money

It's not particularly difficult.

jkarovskaya · 2019-07-27T12:05:47+00:00

Focus on your studies, career, work, projects, hobbies. Have some adventures, travel, explore, and push yourself to new things.

Rock climbing, sky diving, guitar player, learn a foreign language, take a class in Tai Kwon Do, Kempo, etc.

Learn to invest, even small amounts in reasonable long term funds, or if you have some play money, stocks with growth potential

Point is, there is SO MUCH OUT THERE, besides the urgent need to chase skirt.

It ain't easy when you're younger, but the more you focus on you, your friends, family, work, projects, and building wealth, the happier you'll get.

It's going to take willpower, determination, and true grit.

Letting your biology determine your life choices is sub-optimal, illogical and untenable.

yooshio · 2019-07-27T11:19:08+00:00

Are you asking for a how-to?

Research real monks and just replace the mysticism with philosophy.

More than anything else, going monk means selectively discarding a lot of baggage in your life. You do that to free-up your time and attention for a specific purpose.

Jeffcostello13 · 2019-07-27T13:53:37+00:00

I would advise getting into buddhism. Non-judgementally meditating on my own sexual desire and on the physical form of attractive women has really helped me with letting it go. Although buddhism does take some real philosophical commitment, so its probably not for everybody.

invaderRVA · 2019-07-27T20:29:38+00:00

It's easy: Don't spend a dime on women (the rest will follow).

Gawaieveryday66666 · 2019-07-28T01:24:51+00:00

Thanks for the help guys!Really appreciate it,since I am an incel It should be easier going monk mode

Title	How to go monk mode?
Author	Gawaieveryday66666
Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	July 27, 2019 9:12 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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