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[–]veasel79116 points117 points118 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Lol, my ex wife wrote me a book with poems, our pictures and thoughts about how great of a father I was, “perfect husband”, loved me dearly etc. the Christmas before we split.
Who knew 4 months later when she changed her mind I’d be accused of abuse in the court system ranging from beatings the first part of the trial to rape, then the grand finale molestation ....
Happy bipolar manipulative bitch holidays 🍻
[–]Dwight3469 39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also known as women.
[–]teslaistheshit21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she changed her mind I’d be accused of abuse in the court system
Eh she was just playing the game man. All of them talk and it's the play on family court heart strings to get more funds from the ATM. There's zero ethics in family court. I learned the hard way myself.
[–]BlondeAap-8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Did you recieve a sentence?
[–]veasel7933 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
No, she was full of total shit hell the court order stated she was a manipulative liar and a danger to the well being of the children. Won full custody of my children. Just cost me a ton of stress, money and time. We’ve been all good for 5 yrs now just raising my kids and enjoying my life.
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[–]BlondeAap-13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aye, congrats man! Good to hear :)
[–]nnfl7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You go, king! Congrats on beating the divorce courts; it’s my understanding that there’s usually no justice for men in them so I’m glad you were able to turn shit around for your situation.
[–]veasel794 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I advise every man going thru this, hire a female lawyer ! Fight fire with fire. She didn’t place nice and all the bullshit used against me blew up fantastically
[–]nnfl0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually a good idea. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned and all that. I’m sure women divorce lawyers have an interesting perspective on this, considering the shit they’ve seen.
[–]BiffBiffBiff2749 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Those outward trinkets of affection often betray what's actually going on behind the scenes. Men don't want flowers or trinkets, they want real physical affection or action.
Trinkets are a form of virtue signalling. Not always a cause for concern but definitely should trigger your bullshit radar into action.
[–]Willinbc41 points42 points43 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Wife told me once " Don't you understand ? I will never leave you ! "
A month later she LEFT me for our neighbor.
I don't believe anything women tell me.
[–]the-lone-squid10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That sucks. Couldn't she at least leave far enough that you wouldn't have to see her?
[–]xXx420VTECxXx6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That is implying she's a good person.
[–]Willinbc0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. Brutal.
[–]Willinbc0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It was rough man. I taped a note to myself inside my front door that I had to see every time I left the house, saying something like " Don't do anything stupid !! "
[–]the-lone-squid1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would've moved.
[–]RevolutionaryPea76 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She just wasn't sure the next branch was secure at that point.
Bingo !!!
[–]HiredNote38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
One of my coworkers is angry over his divorce. For February 14th, Valentine's Day, she wrote a poem called "10 Things I love About My Husband". In May, she said she wanted to get divorced because she wasn't happy. She can't give him any reason why she wants a divorce aside from "I'm not happy". Just a few weeks back, he went to court and she said she's divorcing him because he's abusive. He was so stunned, he couldn't talk for several minutes.
Ain't love grand.
[–]kaydawg2310 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The grandest
[–]teslaistheshit22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why I quit Facebook, Insta, etc. because all the women post lovey dovey bullshit with their SO then DM me telling me how great I look or how all her friends were talking about me. It's pure garbage.
[–]RunawayGrain22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Lots of guys around think that girls marrying young and then spending their prime years with a guy is a societal fix for hypergamy. But I've noticed a trend among those marriages recently : After years of marriage she abruptly bails on the long time husband and doesn't contest the divorce much because she wants to be free for some Chad.
So I'll define this trajectory as so:
1.) Girl gets married young. A lot of the time it's pushed on both of them by parents.
2.) She adopts an attitude that she's better/christian/morally right/yadda yadda. This is to explain to her girlfriends why she isn't out whoring around in her twenties.
3.) Around a decade lapses.
4.) She secretly resents the husband because she feels like she missed out during her twenties.
5.) The husband is paying her less attention as she gets older. Things fall into a rut, which is the cardinal sin with a girl.
6.) A random guy arrives and gives her some attention.
7.) The entire decade of marriage dies in a five minute span in her head.
8.) She divorces the husband. She doesn't divorce rape him because she wants everything done and over as quickly as possible. Usually he gets custody, and she doesn't get any cash out of him. She's seeing this as a clean slate to start over, and sometimes it isn't even Chad she leaves for, either, it's another girl.
9.) A year or less passes.
10.) Chad gets tired of her and bails.
11.) She rolls the dice with contacting the ex husband and comes up short.
12.) She files some kind of legal case against the ex husband, sometimes out of spite, sometimes in a bid to get financial support. Restraining orders seem to be a popular choice here.
I read an article recently about a girl that was a lifestyle blogger that followed this trajectory just about perfectly. She was married to a well off guy, blogged about being a perfect christian and dealing with a ton of kids. Then she dumped the guy and moved into a shack in Washington state. The thing is that in reading this, she checked every box for sociopathy. She even described her life as 'carefully curated.'
[–]kaydawg238 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are sociopaths, they believe it's okay to control every single aspect of their lives down to the smell of her hand sanitizer, they go through life dreaming, plotting and planning their dream weddings, dream homes, dream kids all of that nonsense so when they find a man that matches her dream criteria (dumb, innocent, cuck) she manipulates him into marriage selling him on the idea of her fantasies through "our" dreams because then she has led him to believe in the ideal that what a woman in a relationship wants are in the best interests of the relationship whilst in actuality she's just stringing him along for her show at his expense and once she's over it she'll glance through her social media see some basic bitch 'living her best life' traveling and living single and aspire for the same so she'll kick him to the curb and take his house and 50% of his shit. You know to a man this seems highly cynical, pure fiction just plain stupid imagination but if you look out into the world it's happening at the same rate kids are being born coming "9our" being
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Number 7: It wasn't in her head.
[–]ncarolina662 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I agree with most of what you said except for #8......NO FREAKING WAY does ANY woman walk away from mounds of cash/house/cars, etc....
At least I have never seen or heard a women doing that.
[–]RunawayGrain1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've seen it go down at least half a dozen times in the last four years or so. In one instance she even took all the debts and left the husband with all the assets. They come back and try to get something out of him later on down the line, though. Usually after Chad dumps them.
[–]ncarolina661 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well maybe there actually is a God then... Because all I've seen is the greedy, lawyered up Thot who cheated on her husband, wants the house and 1/2 the assets plus alimony. Nice to hear, there are actually some woman out there with morals (at least at the time of the divorce anyway)
[–]RunawayGrain2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It isn't a matter of morals, it's a matter of expediency. She wants the marriage out of the way so she can attach herself to the other guy. If she were going for cash and prizes he'd likely fight and drag it out. If she takes as little as possible he's more likely to just sign on the dotted line.
[–]rosspghettod1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mine did. Didn’t give a fuck and is still super nice to me and buys me shit randomly at times and just acts cool. But it still hurts.
[–]magicmikefx1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep it's the new script
Damn. That hit really close to home.
[–]Xezyr7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Remember gents, her words mean nothing. Only tools for situational progress forbher own selfishness. It's not a coincidence you hear "a man's word" but not "a woman's word". Utter lies amd deceit, absolutely worthless.
[–]escalover2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, my ex-fiance, a couple of months before she cheated on me, said "I'm not missing anything with you, I have everything I could ever want and need." 4 months later and it was done.
[–]misanthr0pe666 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex gf made me a "mixtape" before she moved on to the next cock. I never even opened it, her taste in music was shit lol
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