I dont mind paying for a date

badaboomxx · 2018-07-10T14:17:49+00:00

I am dating a girl, at first she paid half of the date, now she wants me to pay for everything.... I will ditch this idiot later.

TXRudeboy · 2018-07-10T14:09:30+00:00

I hear ya, if you invite someone out it is common courtesy that you pay. It’s not a big deal, but the other person should not expect it at all and should be able to pay their own way if you do not offer.

Here’s my advice guys, if you go out with a girl and it’s not going well or you see that she is taking advantage of the situation and expecting you to pay up, when it’s time to pay ask for separate checks and pay your own and walk away. At bars, do not allow her to order on your tab, if you offer a drink you order it. A good rule is to never allow a woman to order food or drinks themselves, it shows her you are in charge and that she’d better behave if she wants the treats.

GuardianGanymede · 2018-07-10T16:15:46+00:00

Me and my bro pay for each other all the time. Nothing wrong with paying from time to time.

Terminarch · 2018-07-10T14:53:12+00:00

I use the illacertus method.

Coffee with a successful entrepreneur? I'm paying as a show of respect for this unique learning opportunity. Lunch with some bimbo thot? The fuck do you have to offer?

It's all entitlement encouraged by blue pill simps where her 'presence' is some reward. I don't want her to pay half, I want her to pay for her meal. No exceptions.

Tercalerc · 2018-07-10T13:28:04+00:00

I don't mind gender equality.

But I do mind society denying female privilege and claiming women are "oppressed by the patriarchy". Let's keep it goin, gents!

Edgar_c619 · 2018-07-10T16:26:40+00:00

If they expect you to pay for dates, then expect to get laid too. Treat them how they treat you.

throwaway_ftb · 2018-07-10T18:49:26+00:00

i mind

Azul19 · 2018-07-11T00:36:30+00:00

Me too mate...and the whole expecting men to pay for the date thing is pretty sexist.

jackanger · 2018-07-11T17:21:33+00:00

When I was dating ( a long time ago ), I worked out who was paying before the date took place.

If a girl asked me out... I would call her on it. "Oh your asking me out? Are you gonna buy me dinner?" It was fun and challenging to the date. In a good way. It was fun..

If I asked a girl... The outing was on me. I also look at it like I'm treating myself. So money wasn't consuming my thoughts. Dating should be fun. Not worrying about who pays what. Sometimes on most first and second dates... The girl would suggest going dutch for obvious reasons. I usually took them up on it. Not a big deal.

Dating was always fun. Now that I know who my wife really is ( another long story )... I can't wait to get back to having fun!

Title	I dont mind paying for a date
Author	MadManMonkey
Upvotes	25
Comments	11
Date	July 10, 2018 1:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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