I have a question

TheMeJewMovement · 2018-11-18T13:37:33+00:00

of course. but does it matter? there isnt really a way for a man to have a successful relationship with women. you can never win, the best u can hope for is to not lose.

J_Alonso · 2018-11-18T13:42:14+00:00

Yes. I think you can truly go your own way only after you have matured.

For a young man it is enough to be "red pilled" and aware of the human nature. Be very careful with people in general, especially women. Do not waste time, absolutely do not let anyone ruin your life and stay focused on work.

denizenoflaniakea · 2018-11-18T15:33:53+00:00

There is no such thing as a successful relationship. There is parasite and host. And lots of shittesting.

TVTestPattern · 2018-11-18T13:37:54+00:00

Yes it can be used as an excuse for failed relationships.

Don't do that.

renegatta · 2018-11-18T19:35:00+00:00

Sth brought you here. Trust it. Mgtow should help you to define your own way, therefore to discover. Relationships come and go. What you have is your life now. This is more important. I think you are smart and want to be too perfect. That is my guessing.

Gyow. Or not. You decide, you define.

pike91 · 2018-11-18T20:04:06+00:00

You are young, and so you will inevitably encounter and have relationships with women. It will happen eventually. Whether or not they are successful is completely subjective.

Think about it like this - Sartre said:

“Man is nothing else but what he purposes, he exists only in so far as he realizes himself, he is therefore nothing else but the sum of his actions, nothing else but what his life is.”

To state another way - your life is the sum of all the choices that you make.

In order to make good choices, you have to understand the way that the world works.

For me, this includes understanding human nature and in the context of MGTOW, that means the nature of women, and the nature of relationships with women in current society.

If nothing else I would hope that a young person here could take what is discussed in these forums out with into the world with them, so that they will not sacrifice themselves - their ambitions, their emotional well-being, their resources - as so many others here have.

Remember - the world owes you nothing. Society owes you nothing. Women owe you nothing. And they will take EVERYTHING YOU GIVE.

Do not let them fool you into thinking that you owe them anything.

You will be called selfish. Fuck that. Understand the world, work for yourself first and become a better man, making better choices.

I think this is best lesson MGTOW can give someone young.

suhmydudessssss · 2018-11-19T09:27:27+00:00

Does it matter? Issaic Newton and J Edgar Hoover were MGTOW's from start to finish and look how well their lives went.

Your relationships or lack their of with women will not contribute to a greater society or a better career. They are meaningless pursuits

3rd_viewpoint · 2018-11-19T19:21:13+00:00

You don't need to go monk mode, imo. But you just need to be aware of the risks and manage the risks. You wouldn't drive on an icy road in a car with worn out tires, right? Likewise, you shouldn't even start dealing with poor candidates. Women in relationships or men in business.

If you look at Warren Buffett, you'll know that before investing in private companies, he looks very closely at their leadership.

Title	I have a question
Author	J_Alonso
Upvotes	10
Comments	12
Date	November 18, 2018 1:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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