I need to rant real quick...

TerdBrgler · 2020-07-22T05:47:13+00:00

Well just think of it as a challenge. You may enjoy being alone for now, but it won’t last forever you will need relationships again someday. Don’t cut off your good friends. Just be a calm peaceful monk who hears what they say, but it’s nothing to do with you. It’s like when people talk about sports to me, I have zero interest in it. U know if enough time passes your friends will eventually see things your way re women.

Dadeh · 2020-07-22T05:57:13+00:00

Nah man, you're not an asshole for wanting your space. When it comes to your friends, if they truly are/were your friends they would understand that want to be alone. You're going to run into bluepill dudes no matter where you go - work, gym, friends, colleagues, associates, etc. You just have to keep them at arms reach. It's understandable to be frustrated with all their talks about women - especially if you're still in the RPR phase of things.

My best friend is still blue pill with a sprinkle of purple in there but it's basically non-existent. He's been my best friend since we were 9 years old - well over 20 years at this point. When I was going through my RPR phase he didn't shut me down, try to change my mind, and accepted what I had to say albeit even if he didn't entirely agree. I believe the people that you want most in your life are the ones that can understand your point of view regardless if it matches their own. I would go on long rants about philosophy, red flags I should've picked up on, and all the things that I hated about the world in that moment. Not once did he shut me down, seem annoyed, or persuade me with countering arguments. He just listened.

I give him the same respect when he's going on about his girlfriend, her family, and how much he despises X about the situation. It's a mutuality of understanding and although I want to interject with RP/MGTOW philosophy I know that it will go in one ear and out the other.

In your post it doesn't sound like your friends are toxic. They're just normal dudes that talk about normal things and considering this promise to yourself you feel like if you don't play along or act differently that it will tarnish the friendship. Although you yourself have stated that you cut them off because your viewpoints are different and thus you don't feel like you hold any common ground with them anymore. I think that overtime you'll wish that you had kept your friends around as a reminder/affirmation to yourself that what you're doing for yourself is the right path. When it comes to my best friend going on his rants about his girlfriend my immediate thought is "Thank God I don't have to deal with that shit anymore" and it reminds me of how grateful I should be that I am a free man.

If you really feel like they're detrimental to your growth then let them know that you need some space and that you're trying to figure things out with yourself. Once you've settled yourself and are where you want to be at - invite them back into your life if you want. Then you can just watch and be there for them when they themselves are looking for answers.

If they've been your bro's during your frat times, your dating times, and all the bluepill shit you used to do. It doesn't mean that you can't be there for them when they need that healthy dose of red pills.

Be safe out here brother and I hope that you get to where you want to be without feeling like you're swayed in another direction due to others.

JustPissYaself · 2020-07-22T07:21:49+00:00

What you should do is try and subtly red pill your blue pilled mates. Don't throw the red pills at em like a spaz, just slowly day by day, red pill them a little here and there. Tell them that pussy isn't everything, tell them about stoicism and masculine philosophy. Show them that its actually cooler to be like you than it is to be a lame degenerate blue piller.

Or just tell them to take a hike.

Part of going your own way is to do things your own way, regardless of what others think. The reason you found yourself rekindling old relationships you have no interest in is because you're probably still trying to be nice to people instead of being true to people. Focus on being true rather than being nice.

lowkey150 · 2020-07-22T15:00:39+00:00

Why not just tell em straight - you don't wanna talk about tail, full stop. Tech, gaming, music, politics, science, but no tail. Never know, could come to enjoy their company again.

Whulfz0r · 2020-07-22T16:33:19+00:00

Do what you need to. I've dropped all friends and live a hermit-ish life so as to become what I need to, for me.

Eat proper, train proper, meditate proper, rest proper.

I learned, as you need to, as we all do, to put the self first. Else forever live in saddened ponder of the man you could have been; were supposed to be.

Title	I need to rant real quick...
Author	FastLavishness
Upvotes	19
Comments	6
Date	July 22, 2020 5:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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