the difference is that all disney princesses were virgins(ergo they actually preserved their chastity unlike females today) and most of them actually knew how to do shit, cinderella knew how to cook and clean, the same with snow white, that feisty redhead viking knew how to use weapons and was a competent warrior, tiana(the black one) was an actual hardworker, mulan knew how to be an actual housewife and learned how to be a warrior too, ariel know a lot of stuff and was capable of learning stuff and have the drive for it, belle knew how to be a proper housewife, pocahontas(not the nasty ass real one) was a meh but knew her shit with nature at least and was virgin, rapunzel was kinda bad and definitely not wife material but hey at least she is virgin and know how to do housework and can actually heal you from wounds...

if we think about it, disney princesses at the end of the day have at least something to offer, the only princess I think women and girls will relate the most is jasmine, the most realistic woman disney created and you know it since she gave herself to bad boy alladin but at least was a virgin and she had lot of cash and goddamn big ass castle, if anything jasmine is kinda sugar mommy and at least had something to offer at the end of the day, unlike women who only bring debts and pain.