I’m 20, single and depressed

iprinteasy · 2019-07-27T12:15:59+00:00

You think not being rich is a problem?

I am rich even in the richest countries in the world but I been sad and depressed in relationships too.

It has nothing to do with money, if you got money, you lose more money, that's all about it.

It has all to do with the nature of women

Stealing money from me doesn't really affect me much but wasted time, hurt feeling and my love isn't being valued does.

So here I am.

jawz2you11 · 2019-07-27T12:06:41+00:00

Trust me man, reinvest that time into a book, business or hobby and watch as the money and results from it sink in, the whole reason you don’t have people to be around is that your choosing the wrong people to be around. Find a mentor or go to public events that will help with your career path, work on creating cash and working, find some chill guys who like to hang but live a healthy lifestyle. You will be on top of the world one day. Trust me, you can achieve everything you’ve ever dreamed of, if you put in the work right now.

ahugebundleofsticks · 2019-07-27T12:50:51+00:00

Set yourself free and read briffaults law,

Impress yourself by improving yourself for yourself.

Good luck, stay safe, use your youth to have fun as you can still get away with minor stupidities.

Im not a bad looking guy either but im not in the top so life...

There's a faggot downvoting every quality reply here (i hope it isnt you).

Small goals add up especially since you are only 20 my dude.

Find what you wish to do apart from law and chip away at it. 1month goal to 10 years, a 20year old with a plan and determination is a lethal combo.

Most wont take you seriously as you are still young but those who notice your work ethic and perseverance are the ones that you want to give your time to.

Maybe try getting into a law firm as an intern? It wont be fun and it wont be easy but get through that part now that you have the energy so that you may set your future self up with stability, knowledge and tranquility.

Stress ages but useless stress kills

PS: Also if you only know English start learning another language. Maybe spanish or Cantonese as those are extremely valuable not only to be able to converse but as a law person this may also open up the door to more clients and international opportunities.

BiffBiffBiff27 · 2019-07-27T13:03:00+00:00

It can be rough at that age. Didn't have any experience until 24 myself. Unless you're blessed with some qualities that elevate you above your peers, and older guys, then it can be a struggle.

Women that age are at their peak value. They have it easy. You are not at your peak until 27/28. Don't take it personally, it is what it is.

Your perseverance and determination will see you through, and shape your character. Maybe even make you wiser. Your time will come.

eduardkoopman · 2019-07-27T13:16:11+00:00

I’m 20

Imo, the most difficult age for a man. Dating and relationships wise. Because women your age are, at peak worth. And you're still many years away from your peak value years. And the next sad part is, that at this age of yours, your hormones/biology is at it's peak pushing you to get with women.
So, that's what fucks it up for you mostly, just age. Even though for your age, you're not bad looking and doing well for your age in other ways.

But. Life changes over time. So don't give up. Keep doing and working on yourself, to set yourself up for a grat life(style). Take care of your: health, body, knowledge, carreer/work, etc.. Then, you will have a good life(style) for sure, as you get older. And the option of women, will then also be much better if you want that (relationships, sex, etc..). Be carefull (you know the precautiosn to tkae, as is discussed alot here).

I’m just tired of being alone

make friends, join group activities. A relationship doesn't necsairely cure a feeling of loneliness. I think joining groups, you feel you belong to, helps more.
Like I'm a member of 2 religious groups, a martial arts group. It could be more if I had more free time, and was more extravert that i need that. But imo that's a better way.

and being treated like I don’t exist by any of the people I try to get to know, women have been nothing but a bad experience for me in general, always thinking they are better than me and that’s broken my spirit, espeically since all the dumb alcoholic potheads from high school and uni got with girls but I never did, so yeah

You're in an age group, where women go for either: good looking fun guy (alcoholic potheads, party animals, dangerous dudes, etc..) or they go for guys with resources that are 10 years older then them. It's just difficult for normal and decent/smart men to fit in, dating/relationship wise. that's just the reality.
Imo. i would put dating/women on hold for the next 5 years. Work on yourself. And if you really need urgent sexual release and can't cope with masturbation anymore, "just" buy sex (escort, hooker). Romance and affection seeking, I thing one will likely just end up being abused as an orbiter mostly, so better opt out for the next years imo.

As, far as not getting respect goes.
Respect is given, when people look up to you. I guess they don't do that (unrightfully probably). So you are not getting it that way.
Respect is also given, when people fear you. And that you can achieve through having a good physical appereance, and in your attitude if you know you know how to fight (thus join some type of fighting sport, like MMA or Mu Thai, or Jijitsu, or judo, or whatever).
So: get some muscles, (hopefully you're tall-ish (that also helps), and learn how to fight. Then lets see, if some asshole/bitch still dares to disrespect you. Because at least you will or might then have the aura (and knowledge about you) that you could fuck these people up if you decided to. I don't know how to explain, but even though I ave just recently done this low level (aka little add muscle, and some fighting skill now). I already see the change in people disrespecting me, both men and women. I never really have to do anything bully-type, or threaten or whatever. It's just something people feel and know. (I've been single for some years by choice, and got the "disrespect incel loser" treatment from people more and more over the years, but know i get treated better again).

PrfctlyGoodWhiteBoy · 2019-07-27T12:02:50+00:00

revel in the fact that in 10 years, you get to watch them all hit the wall, while you look great at 30. then you can afford to fuck all the 18 year old tail while the girls that rejected you get fat and old.

NamasteFelicia · 2019-07-27T13:04:38+00:00

Dude it's the same for most men. You are not really missing that much.

Other than that reread your own post from a neutral perspective and watch how you have self doubts and negative talk. Fucking own your life man, become the master not the servant

Batman_MGTOW · 2019-07-27T19:45:46+00:00

Modern female hypergamy has made it nearly impossible for young men to get laid with decent looking women in this day and age. You will find that you are not alone in this and this is because as women go for the hottest men, guys like you and me, guys who have an average looking face, can only attract the ugly fat girls and even then they will cheat on you once they find Chad. I have the height of a chad, and I am white, yet I still cant get laid, because I am not attractive enough for women. Guys dont realize that even if you are married, even if you have a girlfriend, you can still be an incel. Incel doesnt really mean involuntarily celibate, incel means that you cant get women that you are attracted to, most guys are in this situation because most guys are average looking, you can improve some things but other things remain permanent like your face. Really the only 2 options that you have when you are average looking are: 1) you go monk and just avoid women altogether otherwise you will get screwed over, or 2) you go live in southeast asia and work as either a divemaster or an english teacher and you have tons of sex with hot tourists and hot local women, you live the fun life constantly moving around and having lots of adventures. Most guys couldnt pull off option 2 because they dont want to lose the comfortable lifestyle that they are currently living. The reason why I mention southeast asia is because over there, if you are white, you will automatically be more attractive than the local men even if you are poor and making minimum wage as an english teacher, that is because ALL women want the superior white genes for their babies, they dont know that though, its really just an instinct just like hypergamy. Take any white incel and throw him into southeast asia and he will no longer be an incel, hell even the ethnic western men will be preffered by women over the local men because they are more exciting than local men.

And the reason for all of this is because Chads are stealing all the decent looking women from us in the west, while white men are stealing many decent looking women and most of the very hot looking women in third world countries. So if you are not a Chad and you want experiences with women, then you will need to be just like Chad and steal the poor men's women. I saw a thread on the incel website where some guys actually figured this out but I doubt they will ever try to do it, its easier to complain than it is to act and change things.

peguy2000 · 2019-07-27T12:04:34+00:00

Once you stop caring about female validation youll get female validation eventually.

Stop being so weak and find happyness within yourself

If you really want pussy you gotta be happy and confident, find something and master it, hit the gym and read redpill books

DangZagnut · 2019-07-27T13:19:17+00:00

Thats what happens when you chase girls out of your league, they shut you down.

This will happen as long as you're always going for girls way above you, and this will happen when they hit the wall and pay attention to you and you'll simp and pay and marry like a bitch.

qaveboy · 2019-07-27T15:34:23+00:00

Allow yourself to enjoy the one commodity you have a bunch of. Time. Give yourself time, things will happen for you, but you have to give it a chance to happen.

anonym1230 · 2019-07-27T21:22:40+00:00

all theyre communicating to you is “youre not chad. during my years of peak fertility, i only want chad”

hillaryshitman123 · 2019-07-28T00:30:28+00:00

stop feeling sorry for yourself simp, go buy a hooker and realize how much of a waste of time chasing sex/relationships are

Title	I’m 20, single and depressed
Author	FreedomOfSpeech76
Upvotes	11
Comments	21
Date	July 27, 2019 11:44 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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