I’m curious

Zaanix · 2020-04-08T05:53:12+00:00

I learned from other's mistakes. All the half-jokes of "never get married" and the looks in the eyes of any married guy I know (surprisingly few devorcees) told me all I needed to know.

The rest was brought on by observation. I watched the behavior of people around me, especially those I would be expected to interact with by society.

And after all of that, what's my big revelation?

Being in solitude is preferable to interacting with most people. Want a companion? Get a dog. They'll be better friends than any human you meet.

Humans. They're draining. Narcissistic. Simpleminded. Short-sighted. Hypocritical. Shallow. Fake.

Barely a soul I've met could be called truly great. I know it's impossible to change the world, so I decide to change myself to be better. Better than the average man, which itself is insultingly pitiful.

This mindset let me give up a few things; fear, anxiety and the need for others in all aspects.

I've gone my own way, and now nothing will stop me.

Edit: reworded a section for clarity.

Gn0meRat · 2020-04-08T05:43:53+00:00

I dunno somewhere between the meth head with dentures and the vag with no tampon that destroyed my feather matress topper and the "nicest" woman in the world cucking out this guy I know and fucking half the town.

Somewhere in all that. And all that was 5-7 years after my last actual long term relationship where I was told I was loved every day except when she wanted out so instead of looking stupid she self sabatoged the relationship by acting like a basketcase for 3 weeks straight before I just said fuck it and then I broke up with her.

Never_Simp · 2020-04-08T06:09:09+00:00

Well first off, at the time I was depressed and suicidal over a couple of things. I tried taking my life and thankfully I failed in doing so. After that I took sometime to really think about everything and there it was. I suddenly realized that no matter how much you shout and scream for help, as long as you are a male, then society will never accept nor help you. They laughed at me, ridiculed me, told me to “man up” and so I did. Life isn’t fair and no one owes you anything in this world. Men and woman are not equal, they have never been equal, and never will be equal until things like pussy passes are gone. We live in a gynocentric culture/society that hates men, love isn’t real, and women are incapable of ever being satisfied with what they have and what you do for them.

user_miki · 2020-04-08T07:03:20+00:00

Contrary of some opinions not all MGTOW were burned by women.Some were involved in relationships but not burned.

They learned from other experiences and personal observations.They took the red pill and reanalyzed past relations from red pill angle.And they did not like what they saw.

TAEgoMan · 2020-04-08T06:07:44+00:00

Women throwing themselves at me after I lost weight and started to earn a lot after working to become the best version of myself. I essentially became hot. It was upsetting to see the sad reality of women's preferences and how their leech instincts kick in once the SMV rises. I'm like "Bitch I didn't do this for you to come and ruin it. You don't deserve me now". I'm just happy and stress free right now and a pussy isn't going to make a difference here. I can go two ways, upwards or downwards and I have figured out what can make me push upwards and its definitely not women.

Bokulence · 2020-04-08T08:33:32+00:00

As a long time mgtow-er, i think this is not just for woman, relationship and marriage. But for a lot of things in this society as a whole.

As a MGTOW, i understand many things that is so wrong with this world and society.

Let's start with the typical: Woman and Marriage: Once you sign that paper your soul is in hands of the government and that bitch.

The government will fuck you up even without being married on so things, no matter which side win the election. This is why i don't vote. It's bad because is diving people based on politics.

The law is so also against you, i understand this since i was 17. Martial law, family law, child support, alimony, these are side effects that are not really advertised much.

Freedom - i want to do what i want, when i want without giving my freedom, space to someone else. I don't want to be nagged on, to be questioned my choices and why do i need to do that. Good luck doing this in marriage.

Woman hold to much power and control in marriage.

I don't want to provide to anyone else. i am selfish and anything i do is for me.

This is also for friendship.People see you for what you can do for them. In the meantime nobody gives a shit about you. Since this chaos started, i only got calls from people to do something for them or give them money. But they were busy when i need it someone to talk to.

Working for someone else is the same shit. I started my own business, and still people question me my decision.

DangZagnut · 2020-04-08T06:00:41+00:00

The money.

LongTimeOn · 2020-04-08T06:46:43+00:00

Realising that after slaving away for 13yrs in a marriage I was just an inconvenience to her, finding all the messages to her ex and when confronted being met with a stony, cold response. After the divorce I actually decided to do stuff for me, not for others, as I had done all my life. It's been liberating, not having to carry another's burdens.

SomeGhostingGuy · 2020-04-08T15:04:00+00:00

Bad, broken home, no money, 2nd hand clothes at best, handed down from relatives, mother crazy, father alcoholic, never went on vacation or anything else to talk or even brag about. Also ugly and fat because of cheap malnutrition.

From puberty to 18 ... 100% no chance of getting laid because of above.

From 18 to 35 I just simply worked like mad, not real time for much of anything else. No GFs or relationships, when the balls got too blue I went to the escort of my choice (legal here). Never had that high off a drive anyway and basically monk since then.

At 35 I was suddenly a hot commodity but already had the news from people I knew being divorced and ripped off. Nah .. worked to hard for my little wealth. Had offers, from 25 up to just before the wall but never went for it. Except for visible wealth the new-me was not that different from old-me, I realized that all out there for me at my age were gold-diggers looking to lock down a guy with money.

Now at 43, the last thing I want when I come home is to see or deal with another person. I have a 13 year old dog (very old for his size) and will not even get another one after that. I have enough responsibilities in my job, being at home means relax and have fun... not a "honey do" list of errands and responsibilities to check off.

Roombas, lawn-robots and myself keep everything very nice and clean, I can cook and can in addition eat decent and kinda healthy at my workplace. The only woman in my life is an old lady ironing my shirts (can not be bothered to do that) once a week.

If things go well I plan to retire early, put my roadster on a trailer behind a camper-van and travel around when it is not too hold or too cold to do so.

DannyTTT55 · 2020-04-08T05:44:16+00:00

Learning about how swayed the laws are towards women in relationships and rearing of children

Whulfz0r · 2020-04-08T18:50:43+00:00

Had one girlfriend for a while. It ended. Was like yeah, not for me.

miamihound · 2020-04-11T09:11:50+00:00

I feel like every married man pretended to be happy and was constantly stressed out so I sensed they were not being respected ever. You could tell also when they specifically told you to never get married quietly or under their breath. But people don't listen.

BlackPillPusher · 2020-04-11T11:17:38+00:00

A few years ago I was dating a violent female which made me go online and look up solutions , after watching around a 100 hours of barbarossa, stardusk and manwomanmyth I realized the solution is dumping her ass and focusing on what's important - me, had just one relationship after that which solidified all the things MGTOW taught me and after that I went full monk, going strong for three years now.

NickTesla2018 · 2020-04-08T09:14:18+00:00

Get married and lose everything. That will turn on the light bulb.

Zilo88 · 2020-04-08T10:36:15+00:00

I gave up around twelve years old. Decided that the potential for embarrassment, rejection, and heartbreak was not worth potentially having sex or children. Now I don't trust them not to take advantage of my autism to manipulate or trick me. Just want to observe my daily routines.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-04-08T11:35:37+00:00

I accidentally "tripped" over the acronym at YT.

Title	I’m curious
Author	mgtowgabe
Upvotes	7
Comments	23
Date	April 8, 2020 5:28 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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