I'm tired

Robin2Fast2Furious · 2018-08-16T00:22:42+00:00

Talk to a divorce lawyer. Start documenting everything she does to you. Don’t talk to her directly unless it’s through a lawyer. Move out to get away from the toxic environment.

blackflags91390 · 2018-08-16T00:39:10+00:00

Holy shit guys I feel my balls growing back. Thanks

blackflags91390 · 2018-08-16T00:20:46+00:00

Also as an afterthought I feel like the biggest pussy on the face of the planet because of how I let this woman treat me.

neoreeves · 2018-08-16T00:33:17+00:00

The reason she demonizes you with things from 2 years ago is not because of a postpartum whatever, it's because she is a woman... All my ex-GFs used to do the same and I always felt anxious and tired of having all the old same arguments ready to defend myself of any iminent old shit attack.

Now that you gave her a kid, she doesn't have to hold herself, with this baby she now owns your house and you by the balls and if you don't do what she tells you to do, she'll kick you out of the house and ask for child support, that's the truth of what about to happen to you, sorry, bro.

Now what you have to do is to try to minimize the damage you're about to suffer. Hire a ~~gangster~~ lawyer and start the divorce process, and go your own way (don't forget the vasectomy)

trappedoutthebando · 2018-08-16T00:32:28+00:00

As someone said, document everything. Here's the thing - I assume you're married - in family court you're going to have a hard time even if both of you have 0 evidence and she says she wants to raise the kid. Document all her abuses, document her wanted to go out and party when you have to work and forcing you to stay home from work to take care of the kid (shows she's incapable of parenthood) and that she is not a capable adult (you can do this by catching her drunk when she comes from parties doing stupid stuff on a constant basis).

Outside of what has been outlined above - I am so sorry for the position you're in. I know how it feels when dealing with someone you once loved when they have these depressive states and are treating you like this. You do not deserve that as a human, a dad or as a man. You will have to deal with her taking your son and hope that in the long run, she becomes incapable (or rather, too lazy to) of taking care of her son and passes him off to you. You staying with her is not going to do you and thus your son any justice. Leave cold turkey but make sure you're still involved in your son's life.

Illustrious_Hour · 2018-08-16T04:35:02+00:00

no money for lawyer then just mimic her behavior. She rages - you rage, she leaves house - you leave house. So on.

DriverDude777 · 2018-08-16T05:42:55+00:00

It sucks, I'm in a similar situation. If your not married it makes it harder to get custody I heard. I'd try to get as much evidence as possible. Text messages, etc. And don't let her get dirt on you. So.. don't esculate when she shit tests you. Just save those shit tests as evidence. The best evidence is parental alienation samples. Like evidence of withholding "parenting time" is damning evidence in court because it brings her character into question and "isn't in the best interest of the kid". Just be patient and don't let her shit tests drive you crazy. That's what she wants. She wants to control everything.

She needs to know that you are not a threat to her or the kid. You just want to be involved in your sons life. And she needs to know that you will scorch the earth to be in that boys life. So set your boundaries and be prepared to enforce them.

Swapnil9 · 2018-08-16T00:22:56+00:00

Lol. First of all get a vasectomy.

FemaleIsEasyMode · 2018-08-16T03:11:26+00:00

Lawyer up. Tape what you can and document the rest. Any abuse she commits (against you or child) document.

pahike · 2018-08-16T13:38:04+00:00

If you say she goes out and gets guys numbers and hides her phone, I would get a paternity test to make sure the child is yours.

Yootoobactname · 2018-08-16T15:31:19+00:00

You're a man. Don't waste money on a lawyer. The 30 grand i spent in court was for nothing because my lawyer went to court wolithout me and signed a different order that gave her everything she wanted after we had an order. Plus, the orders aren't enforced, so the money spent on them is money wasted. Learned that the hard way too. Pull all ypur money out of ypur accounts, they'll put a lien on them during the proceedings anyway. And do not volutarily supply any financial info. They can subpeona anything they want. Don't make your rape easier for them. If you aren't into cryptos, get into them now, and start stashing into encrypted wallets.

Title	I'm tired
Author	blackflags91390
Upvotes	38
Comments	18
Date	August 16, 2018 12:18 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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