Recently I have turned 36 and I have come to some conclusions about getting older. Some of them you will think are bad and some of them I think are good. I truly feel that men age like wine and women less so.

I’ve noticed that my sex drive has come down over the past 5 years or so. Normally men would look at this like it’s a bad thing, but I don’t. I no longer have strong urges to fuck everything that I see, which seems to give me a clearer head and more time to focus on things that get me ahead in life.

Have you ever ignored a woman that flat out told you she wants you to come over and give her the bone every night? I have 2 single mother neighbors that both tell me this. They have flat out said “Come over when my kids asleep and fuck me. Make it a surprise; here is the code for my door.”
They only say this because they know I won’t. I have made a point of telling them both in the past that I am not interested in a relationship but value their friendship. It’s not you, it’s me…

Also I seem to have a stronger control over my emotions then I have in the past. These women are insecure obviously. They are constantly asking my opinion on men, life and everything. For example I one of them asked me why men are interested in anal sex with her. It caught me off guard. I gathered my composure and replied that people always want things that they can’t have and don’t appreciate things they do have.

My goal was to change the topic from a sexual one into a philosophical one. This lets her know that I am not thinking about her in a sexual manner. Which truly, I am not.

I treat them like I would a gay man. They flirt with me and I brush them off, they ask sexual questions and I steer the conversation to something else.

It’s just easier now than when I was 15-25. Now the big head is thinking, I can see clearly now, the clouds are gone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrHxhQPOO2c&list=RDMrHxhQPOO2c#t=8