Hey Guys,

Having lurked here for a while, and recently subscribing, I thought I might share my experiences and what has finally lead me to GMOW. Many of the stories and examples of MGTOW life have given me much encouragement and understanding over the past year, thanks to all for opening my eyes.

To that end I’d like to relay my experiences that lead me here, and my present position, that has further solidified my understanding that MGTOW is the only way I’m going to be at peace in this cancerous, self-destructive, gynocentric society we find ourselves inhabiting.

It’s a story we are all familiar with, blue pilled guy finds girl of his dreams. Move in together, have kids, things change. Luckily, I’ve been anti marriage since I can remember, not entirely sure why, but it’s just something I’ve never believed in. This has saved my life…literally.

After the children came along things changed. I was very deliberately and very effectively marginalised in my own home. My efforts with the kids were not good enough, my working life was not productive (£) enough, my hobbies where taking away time form the family, my friends where not the type of people that we needed to be socialising with. This continued during the kid’s formative years and got to the point where:

· No sex for 6 years

· All my money went into joint account (spent on house/family)

· Her money went into a private account (spent solely on her)

· Never saw my best friends (since we were 16) for 2 years

· She had affair

· She very rarely cooked, cleaned or did the washing, that was mostly left to me.

· I had to pay for a child minder 2 days a week, when the kids where 2-3 years because she needed time to herself to “rest”. (No, she didn’t work at that point.)

· I was the recipient of constant passive aggressive abuse.

· I was accused of abuse by her if I so much as raised my voice.

· I was diagnosed with clinical depression.

During my flailing around, and metaphorical drowning, I stumbled upon the book “no more mr nice guy” by Robert Glover. I’m sure many of you are familiar with it.

This book, and the subsequent journey down the red pill rabbit hole, lead me to understand that if I didn’t get out of this relationship I would be at very real risk of collapsing under the strain and abuse, and taking my own life. So, I left, my home, my kids, my life.

During the following 3.5 years I have had 2 visits to my new home from armed police (I’m in the UK, so this is not the norm) due to false accusations from her. I spent 30 months trying to get more than every other weekend with my kids (had to promise more child maintenance to get that). Taken her to court because she refused to let me have any of the household items that I had payed for. And finally, she’s still sitting in the house I bought (and will be for at least another 3 years) because it’s the kids home and she has primary care (custody).

Ok…… I fucked up and set up home with a genuine Psycho. She definitely has a personality disorder that I was to BP to spot.

So what’s life like now, Selexus? I hear you all ask…….Well my good friends it’s better….and worse.

I’ve had a new girlfriend for 3 years. We’ve lived together for 2. I’ve just told her she is not moving to my new house in October.

Lots of great things about our relationship, but some very bad things as well. Primarily she treats my daughter very poorly. I have laid out to her that she needs to change the way she treats my girl, but after 2 years of the same unacceptable BS I’ve no choice but to tell her she needs to live elsewhere.

After the treatment I received from the mother of my kids, I was so happy to find someone who cared for me. But now I realise that women are pathologically unable to be happy. They have to have something/someone to see as “the enemy”. They have no concept of peace, quiet and harmony.

So as of the end of October it will just be me in my new home. Kids every other week. I’m looking forward to it. I can’t see me letting any woman into my life other than a very casual thing. Certainly not letting any of those Psycho’s near my kids again.