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Just found this sub, thought I would share my post from a while back

touch_my_tra-la-la · 2020-02-22T00:17:19+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/aecser/as_a_woman_im_embarrassed_by_my_gender/ It was the first time I received gold, and from another woman...

touch_my_tra-la-la

February 22, 2020

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Title	Just found this sub, thought I would share my post from a while back
Author	touch_my_tra-la-la
Upvotes	0
Comments	78
Date	February 22, 2020 12:17 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/f7kfz0/just_found_this_sub_thought_i_would_share_my_post/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/just-found-this-sub-thought-i-would-share-my-post.369680 https://theredarchive.com/post/369680

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[–]Mamsplained7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (32 children) | Copy Link

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[–]gantz_au6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

So it's unacceptable for a woman to post?

In this subreddit, yes. This isn't your place to be. You are, of course, free to post elsewhere, but the men here don't want to have to deal with your bullshit.

I'd say the same thing about any man going into a subreddit that is clearly for women only. Men shouldn't post there just as much as you shouldn't post here.

You're too late trying to convince anyone that "there are still good women out there" because no man going his own way is going to risk losing everything he's earned in life to take that gamble and try to find them.

The risk is not worth the reward. The women you talk about in your post, while they may or may not make up only a minority of women, have so much power over society that it's better not to be part of society any more.

We've gone our own way and so should you... away from here.

[–]touch_my_tra-la-la-3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]gantz_au2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I'm terribly sorry you've been traumatized so harshly by women. Your mom must be a total piece of work.

Never had a bad relationship with women. I'm going my own way because I value my freedom and constantly see men around me throwing it away to be with a woman and end up being miserable.

As for my mother, I love her and I love my father. They've both done so much for me, and years ago when I explained my reasoning and presented evidence for why I'm staying away from women, they were and are still supportive of my decisions.

Why? Because they're not idiots, they're both very intelligent people who, decades ago moved their three children out of the country that persecuted us and moved legally to Australia.

Very few people are as lucky as I am to have been born to parents like mine... and you know nothing about them or my relationship with them.

If women aren't allowed in this sub, they should post that explicitly in the rules. Otherwise, I don't know why my post is so offensive to you. I wouldn't blink an eye if a man posted in a "women only" sub, but I'm also not prejudiced.

It's not offensive, no. I personally don't care if you're here or not, but since you're here in a space where the men here don't want you to be, don't expect us to welcome you, be kind, or want to engage with you in the way that you want.

This isn't your place to be.

Lastly, before you try to attach any emotions to my post as you've done so incorrectly with my previous post, know that all I've said has been done so matter-of-factly.

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Maybe if women stop acting so predictably entitled, selfish, manipulative and narcissistic or didnt all react just like you are we wouldn't think AWALT. Yes it has everything to do with accountability and your lack thereof, see how even though you've fucked up your female brain is incapable of not blaming me? You came here, a sub where men who actively avoid women congregate (and it's no secret, it's right in the name) posted some bullshit for attention (really, why else, it's not like you have to worry about false accusations or divorce rape) and call us assholes for saying it's bullshit you came to a male only space for attention as if it's our fault, like every woman before you. You're a walking stereotype and want to blame us for it. Anyway this Convo is dead, I've learned long ago logic and reason have no place in a conversation with a woman, and y'all have your minds made up anyway. Chameleon all you want, the cat is already out of the bag and the men here are never going back to the plantation to deal with hypocritical shit like this.

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Of course they benefit me, I'm a woman and that's not my choice, they inherently benefit me. Does that automatically make me less than you? Again, you're making a lot of assumptions based on my intent. I shared a post that I was given gold to from another woman which I found amusing. Sometimes people's intentions are that simple; there's no between-the-lines bullshit. Regardless what comes out of my mouth? So, you're telling me that you "see through my bullshit" because I define myself as a woman? What would I apologize for? I already said "I was merely sharing a post I wrote a while back with similar sentiments of this sub. I don't know why that's such a crime but fuck, my b." If you're expecting me to bow out quietly and kiss your ring for "putting me in my place", you've made yet another assumption.

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It is a valid point, again regardless of what you say it's your actions that matter. You can shout until you're blue in the face that it's not about attention. That still doesn't change the fact you came to a sub that actively avoids women, posted humble bragging/virtue signalling (nOt AlL wOmEn aRe FemInaZiS, lOoK aT mE lOok At mE!) and continue to get offended and throw around insults for being called out on it. I know it's not "valid" to you because it doesn't pander to your world view, and like all women if it isn't in line with your world view it must be some form of misoginy/toxic masculinity etc... and couldn't possibly have anything to do with your own shortcomings. Because again, AWALT, and I'm not brainwashed like the other men you encounter and won't believe every word that comes out of your mouth, I judge based on actions. It's "circular" because it's not that complicated, you're trying to convince us you're not an AWALT (like an AWALT) and we don't buy it, nothing more to it than that. You can accept that or live in your dilusional fairy tale and get offended, either way, we are staying off the plantation and we see you for what you are.

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I agree in a way. To me this is more of a stepping stone, not a place to get sucked into a torrent of bitterness. You have to understand a lot of these guys have been seriously hurt. I started coming here a couple weeks ago for the same reason. But since coming here I've seen the female version wgtow and FDS and it's enlightening to see how both sides feel like they're being screwed. In fact a lot of their posts mirror exactly these ones. Even not allowing the opposite gender to post (which frankly comes off as cringey and wanting a safe space.) My girlfriend was full of red flags and it's for the best that things ended but I was planning my life around her so it hurt, and I wanted validation. But I know lots of guys who are undeserving of their girlfriends. People screw each other regardless of gender. I just agree with these guys that the laws are not on their side and I agree with your post how third wave feminism has ruined femeninity.

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