Just need some advice.

ShitfacedBatman · 2015-07-15T23:05:40+00:00

my friend gets mad because she goes to him to complain

That's your friend?

she's either down (if I talk about sex), or thinks I'm joking and flirting.

If you bone her, use a condom and spermicidal lubricant.

Anyone deal with this before?

Those other guys before you that boned her have. Ask them.

Isaiah4verse1 · 2015-07-16T03:57:13+00:00

You'll feel dirty afterward but use the nuclear option... Go turbo beta on her!

Wollem · 2015-07-16T02:07:23+00:00

Don't ignore them, it will drive them crazy and they'll become MORE aggressive in their pursuit of you. The best way to get rid of the clingy ones is to detach them over a period of time. When women want a guy there's no talking sense to them, they're stuck on a feeling and won't stop until that feeling goes away.
The short of it is: there's no getting away. Bare down until that feeling they have dissipates and they move on to their next potential conquest. We've all been there, but there's no quick way out of there.

KarlEss · 2015-07-16T03:48:45+00:00

Cmon guys, the main question here is: Is she HOT?!

ancap-biochemist · 2015-07-16T06:46:04+00:00

First off, don't try; ignoring, acting (vulgar), joking, flirting, or being sexual if that's not what you want.

Secondly, set and maintain boundaries; tell her that you did not give her your phone number and that she's not welcomed to text you, etc.. You should have made your boundaries explicit and not talked about sex, for instance, but "all is lost if the lesson is lost."

Thirdly, in the case that you ended up getting a stalker; document (chiefly document your telling her that she is unwelcome, then, if she persists - document your telling her that continued unwanted contact constitutes harassment. Clearly explain what is unwanted). I hope that you did not catch a stalker, all the same, don't delete the texts, and document any stalking behaviors and warnings.

Fourthly, if you must, highlight the reasons you don't want a relationship or anything. A lot of stalkers are socially inept (hence the stalking), having your friend explain social cues to his sister might go a long way in clearing up her possible confusion.

I repeat; set and maintain your boundaries.

GrovyOne · 2015-07-15T22:42:18+00:00

Just ignore her texts. Tell your friend that if he keeps pressuring you you'll stop hanging out. It's a case of boundaries - he can't shame you into dating his sister.

not_very_creative123 · 2015-07-16T00:32:39+00:00

If you ever do reply to her try to use ambiguous one worded answers and be as uninteresting as possible. Nothing you say can disgust her as she'll shrug it off. It may seem like she won't give up now, but women are fickle by nature and will eventually move on relatively quickly when she loses interest.

cfuse · 2015-07-16T05:00:01+00:00

Block the sister, tell the friend that he needs to grow some balls.

Forward the most egregious text you can find to the father, and tell him his daughter is developing a reputation.

LookACastle · 2015-07-27T16:23:14+00:00

Say you're gay, works every time.

oldredder · 2015-07-16T04:13:28+00:00

Yup. Twice. I fucked the sister. Twice (2 different sisters, 2 different friends).

Just don't let her mess up your life in the process, that's all

mgtow4ever · 2015-07-16T14:13:51+00:00

Be blunt. You are not interested in a relationship at this moment. You think these advances are inappropriate.

abertsa · 2015-07-16T15:42:42+00:00

What you do is fuck her right in the pussy!

2015-07-16T13:45:18+00:00

I will be the devil's advocate here. Keep in mind that you should take advices from unknown people on the internet very carefully.

Title	Just need some advice.
Author	GrovyOne
Upvotes	0
Comments	25
Date	July 15, 2015 10:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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