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[β]IoSonCalaf101 points102 points103 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
That moment of clarity...wished it lasted longer.
[β]WizestGuy57 points58 points59 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
they have drugs to make kids pay better attention in school, drugs to help you overcome ptsd, drugs to quiet the voices in people's heads...
but no drug to help maintain that after-last-spurt, crystal-clear, God-she's-ugly reality.
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SSRI's
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LSD
[β]Yashugan002 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most anti-depressants kill libido... And they're widely available... society hasn't collapsed yet
[β]BokehClasses0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I bet there is something out there, but they would never release it publicly because it would collapse society. Imagine what would happen to the labour force if the beta wage slaves stopped working long hours.
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[β]kingullu49 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The most sensible decisions mankind ever makes is straight after a man empties his load.
[β]ManIsWalking38 points39 points40 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Reminds me of the last time I tried to have sex, this was several years ago, was finally getting with the chick I orbited during my BP days. I had pined for this woman for nearly 10 years. Out of the blue she calls me up with a sob story, her man left her for someone younger and she needed that ever faithful shoulder to cry on once she got home from work. Little BP me was all to eager to play Cptn. Save-a-hoe, and I dropped everything I was doing to save the princess.
Over the 10 years, my mind had hyped this chick up to unimaginable heights. She was dark, twisted, had just the right amount of pain in her to get me fucking hot!
So I roll up as she's pulling in from work. The day goes on, by that night were drinking some shitty chocolate flavored beer and making out a bit. By this time in my life I've had enough sex to not be able to get wood without a little extra motivation (bjs). She straight up declines. So maybe some shower sex or something, remember she's been sitting on that pussy for 8 hours now... another hard no.
For some reason she expects me to get hard as if it's as easy as flipping a light. So I think, maybe eating her out would be enough. Worst sexual mistake I've ever made. I get down to her stomach and I can fucking smell it. 8 hours of sweaty pussy, fucking rancid, I do a 180 and reverse my descent into that hell.
Fuck it, this chick has been one you be wanted for so long, just get your dick up, guy! So I fumble around, trying to get hard enough to at least get it in, maybe her wet hole would finish the rest. She's no fucking help, just laying back being as boring as fucking possible, and I lose what little chub I managed shortly after getting it in.
After about 15 minutes of raw effort on my end and none from her, I just get up and put my clothes in.
"Wait, it's over? did you at least cum?" "No, you can't even make me hard... let alone cum. I gave up." "Well, did you like it?" "No, this was the worst experience I've ever had... with you of all people." "Get out of my house you fucking pig, ect ect."
It was after that I broke my BP mindset, learned the friend zone fallacy, and then found MGTOW.
[β]TheOldEskimo21 points22 points23 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This is too real. Exactly how it goes man. Unless you are Thor himself they can't be inconvenienced and you're there for them.
Most women really don't put in any effort at all.
I wonder if it's because men are so disposable and replaceable to them that they don't have to treat men well since they can always replace them with another in a heartbeat.
Similar story to yours happened to me except this was my long term girlfriend of years. I was such a cuck back then. I must've spent half an hour straight just eating her out regularly only to have her turn around angry that I could even suggest the possibility of a blow job. Found out later she'd been cheating with some other men. The vast majority of them are extremely selfish hypocrites.
I don't get laid these days as I've pretty much concluded it's more trouble than it's worth, but if I did, I'll give as much as they're willing to and no more.
More men need to have some god damn self respect and being cucks is a big part of what's got western men into this shitty situation to begin with.
The truth seems to be that how much a woman actually values you -- how much they truly want you to stick around -- is directly proportional to how much effort they put in during sex.
If your girlfriend won't do anything you ask, won't blow you, is always putting you off, star fishes like there's no tomorrow, etc, etc reality is she probably just doesn't give a shit about you and you're disposable and replaceable in her eyes. And she's probably already cheating on you.
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[β]RedBigMan2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. Maybe his subconscious realized he should nope the fuck out of there. No woman looking for a fling with Chad would show up with 8 hours of sweaty nasty snatch. He could have gotten some pity sex if he could get a stiffy but really she probably wasn't taking the pill and just trying to baby trap him.
[β]ManIsWalking1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ain't that the truth. I think issues also come with more experience. On average sex with women all feels the same, and while it's thrilling it's a lot like riding a rollercoaster 27 times over.
At some point you need something more than a "Come here" look and a wink. Touch it, kiss it, fucking breath heavily on it, DO SOMETHING!!!
[β]cleats4u1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My little soldier stopped following orders around the age of 53. That's when I found I could chase them around the barn, but what am I going to do when I catch them? It's not like we are going to have an equitable conversation about mutual interests. Lol. It's not like we are going to split the bills for a better life with each other and be pals. The only thing they are good for is fucking. After that whats the point? Go MGTOW.
[β]ManIsWalking1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Man, it's depressing to think that even in their 50s they don't shape up to become life partners. I think that's all men really want, a lot of us will let physical looks slide if only she has some kind of merit. You would think after menopause they would try to be more interesting.
[β]cleats4u1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know good looking middle aged men that date ugly women just because they know those women can't do better and they feel safe. They even tell them so to keep her in line. Dude this is your only life! Do you need someone to wake up to that badly so you won't feel alone? I would rather die alone than have some fat ugly bitch leaning over my hospital bed and asking...do you have any money hidden anywhere I should know about? What a way to go out!
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[β]robowriter1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The short ugly hair, horrible tats, man clothes and underwear, faux masculine potty mouth, incessant nonsense, bitchiness, armpit hair, hairy legs, these are boner killers.
Lol there's nothing wrong with my dick, my friend. I'm young and masturbate frequently with no issues. But with sex, yes she has to turn me on enough for me to want to fuck her. As far as putting blame on her for my performance? Why the fuck not? Women blame their men for not getting off all the time, I put in my effort she didnt. the way I see it she was the issue.
[β]TheOldEskimo29 points30 points31 points 8 years ago* (17 children) | Copy Link
Lol, like they give a shit if you came.
Based on the guys and gals I've talked with and my own experience, my observation's been men tend to appreciate the woman in bed a lot more than they do you.
I never heard of a guy friend who wouldn't eat out his gal or try the things they wanted, but you always hear all the time about women who won't do anything that requires the least bit of effort from them.
Which is a real slap in the face to be honest -- I'm not even worth a blowjob every now and then to keep around apparently.
Think back to the ratio of give and take you had back when you were in a relationship.
For me, if I finished up, I'd always gladly stick around and eat her out or whatever she wanted til she was satisfied. Hard day at work? Tired as hell? If she wanted it, I'd do my best and help her out because I loved her and wanted to make her happy. Women don't tend to be like that -- at least unless you're Thor. They make it so clear they don't want to give in sex or do anything remotely selfless and then act like it's the biggest fucking inconvenience on the planet that you asked them to blow you or just move their hips a little.
Maybe it's just because I'm not ultra-Chad or part of the consequence of women living in a seller's market.
In any case, I can't stand selfishness with sex -- it ruins the whole experience for me when both people aren't willing to give to each other. Anything less and it's like they're straight up telling you you aren't worth the inconvenience and they aren't going to do anything they don't want to do ever under any circumstances because they are number 1 and you are just dirt beneath them that can be replaced anytime they feel like it.
[β]Lifeboatinthedark17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Its because sex is worthless to them. They are offered sex all day every day their entire adult life. They are turned on by acts of service and buying her things and being more commited and being emotionally available. Of course, if you do all of those things she dumps you.
[β]Zombocom191111 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
sex is more about manipulation and control to them, if they actually enjoyed it, they couldn't use it as effectively , as a tool to get other things with
[β]imPwP1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've made a MGTOWquote of this man, check it out - I think many people need to see this plain and simple truth - it's all a transaction.
[β]kyledontcare5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How totally true. True beyond true.
[β]Baldrbaldr0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Lol, like they give a shit if you came."
They want you to come. It's a validation of their desirability. That's all.
[β]swampyman20000 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
No one should have to do anything sexual if they don't want to. It's not selfish of other people if they're not comfortable doing something you're comfortable with, everyone has different boundaries and that's ok.
[β]TheOldEskimo0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
In practice, that line of thought is completely wrong because people (mostly women) use it to justify not putting in any effort because "They don't want to".
"Sorry babe, I'm tired" -- said 5 days running
"Ew, blow jobs are gross! It's degrading and uncomfortable. Now eat me out plz"
I'm not talking about things that can actually hurt people here, but if you're in a relationship both people have an obligation to give to each other in sex and that includes doing some things that are uncomfortable or inconvenient sometimes.
If one of you won't, then the other person is getting screwed over or they'll stop putting in any effort too leading to a dead bedroom scenario.
Women say exactly what you're saying all the time and it sounds good in theory, but in practice people just use it to justify making sex all about themselves and to justify not doing anything that's the least bit inconvenient for them -- and that leads to some fucking god awful sex because it's either lopsided in give and take or the other party stops giving because their partner already stopped giving to them.
[β]swampyman20000 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nah, nah. If someone doesn't want to do something, they're under no obligation to do it. Just because you're in a relationship with someone doesn't mean you get to ignore their wishes and everything. That's the opposite of how those things should work. When you're in a relationship, both sides need to respect the others wishes, so if they're not comfortable with something you really want to do then you both need to have a serious conversation about that, and if it means that much to you maybe you'll convince them or maybe down the line they'll change their mind but the important thing to remember is that forcing someone into something they don't want to do is rape and has no place in a loving relationship. That's really it, Idk, I hope you have some better experiences in the future
[β]TheOldEskimo0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
People will just lie because they want to take without putting in any effort.
If I don't want to ever eat her out and tell her it makes me uncomfortable, why should she blow me?
She can easily find someone who will do what she wants and that's the difference between men and women -- men have to give more or they get passed up. Women don't have to do shit because men are cucks with no self respect.
The more each person gives, the better sex is going to be. If they inconvenience themselves and do things that are uncomfortable for them or, you know, actually do things that require effort than so will I. If they refuse, than so will I.
That's the reality of how it breaks down. Either somebody is giving more than the other person and feels screwed over because their partner won't inconvenience themselves for them or reactively you start withholding sex and services because they're already withholding from you.
What you're saying simply doesn't work in reality.
And saying that a partner -- man or woman -- having sex or doing oral or whatever when it's an inconvenience for them is rape is bullshit.
I guarantee you nobody bats an eye if it's a man doing oral when he's tired from work and not really feeling it but helps out his girl anyway.
[β]swampyman20002 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean there's a complete differences from doing something inconvenient and not being ready or not wanting to do something. Sure, doing something for someone else even if it inconveniences you is great and all and I applaud that, but it doesn't mean people should do things they're not ready for. But yeah, when each person is giving and loving the other person, that's what it should be like
[β]Chaddeus_Rex0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eh, the last girl i fucked seemed very concerned about that fact. I came over to her dorm to 'watch a movie'. We started fucking like an hour and a half in (the movie was pretty good, I was enjoying it but figured I had to make a move or get her pissed at me). We fucked, she seemed to be putting effort in, doing hot porn moves with her pelvis.
She said she came (maybe its bs, maybe it isn't - either way doesn't matter) and after fucking for a bit more she asked if i did. I said 'no'. She kept trying to get me off, but i didn't cum. Eventually I got annoyed with her asking and lied. But she didn't believe me lol.
wouldn't eat out his gal
That's their mistake - they're eating girls out. Girls consider guys that do that, to be weaker than them.
I'd do my best and help her out because I loved her and wanted to make her happy
Don't love her - make her love you. As Heartiste says, 'Follow the Golden Ration - say one I love you for every two of hers'
[β]cashmoney_x0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes and no. I was married, and I lived with two other girls, so I lived this. However, I also dated a 20 year old when I was 30 (after my marital separation) and I dunno if it was the mindset I had at the time, the social situation we were in (lots of partying with me being the fun, outgoing, funny guy), my looks (never one to think that about myself but read on), her having just a ridiculous libido, daddy issues, or some combination thereof but MAN for about four months it was basically a neverending porno with every possible fantasy being fulfilled and not only was she as into as I was, she initiated at least half of it and honestly, she actually tired ME out.
She would blow me multiple times in a session, keep going after I finished, swallow, masturbate herself until I was ready again and then blow me some more. She blew me in public, suggested road head multiple times (nighttime isolated road or daytime highway, didn't matter), pulled me away (barely away) during parties/hangouts to make out and (you guessed it, blow me). She stopped me on my way to the bathroom to clean up after a blowjob so she could jerk me off. She blew me while I played video games. Blew me while I was on the phone. We would take turns going down on eachother while the other tried to play the drums.
Just ridiculous nonstop shit. It actually got to the point where after the fourth sex session in a row, I was coming back from the bathroom totally exhausted only to find her fingering herself and I literally exhaled loudly/sighed and said "again?!" I mean I seriously did NOT want or need sex after four sessions but there she was, ready for more.
She also scared me because we had to use the morning after pill twice within a few weeks. She would wrap her legs around me super tight when she knew I was gonna bust and she'd whisper dirty shit while bucking into me like an animal. So fucking hot but I was old enough to recognize the warning signs (not to mention her constant lying, laziness, fake illness, and barely concealed hypergamy/stable of orbiters.
There are girls who want to fuck and do fuck like guys. They are out there man.
[β]basedmillennial950 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She also scared me because we had to use the morning after pill twice within a few weeks. She would wrap her legs around me super tight when she knew I was gonna bust and she'd whisper dirty shit while bucking into me like an animal.
Come on man it's obvious she was just trying to get pregnant and baby trap you, she didn't have a high libido or anything like that. Remember women use sex to manipulate men, if they're putting out constantly it's because they're either trying to get you to put a ring on their finger (at which point the sex will stop) or trying to get you to put a baby in their belly (at which point they've got an 18 year meal ticket)
[β]cashmoney_x0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Um, no. She masturbated religiously, away from me, around me, before me and after me. You're ignorant on this topic.
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i suggest the ultimate solution. worked for me.
takes a bit of time and money, but its worth it. first find a good escort. this can take a while since many have bad attitudes or do not really turn you on in the looks department, but if you're in any major city around the world, enough research and perseverance you can find a good escort with a good price. now it might be expensive but i suggest you meet her, ALOT, literally find a time you can go and see her like 20 days out of a month. it might cost you 3-4 grand, but in that time you can get out EVERY dirty fantasy you ever had, you can squeeze her boobs until boobs become boring. truth is once you've had a prime woman a few times, you'll see how pointless it all is. i still get turned on at times, but it's rare. so much of the blue pill comes from a man's sexuality and the need to always go further sexually. hotter women. more women.
all you gotta do is max out your brain. get a hot 18 year old escort. download 50 hours of your favorite porno in 4k or HD. put the porno on and fuck her and eat ramen noodles until you literally cannot cum a drop anymore. do that and shit, you'll never be interested in women again. society looks down on men who engage with sex workers for a reason, it ruins the illusion. unless you are a true Chad, you are fed sex in small and controlling ways to beta orbit you. even if you're a good looking guy, it's all pussy control until you go back to the plantation. women know this and know how to dish out pussy in increments to enslave a man's brain. simply push your brain to the extreme. hell even just making sure you watch good porno and jack off regularly will do this since it stops all your sex hormones from making you a fucking monkey when you see a hot woman.
What was your strategy for avoiding legal repercussions? How did you know your prostitute(s) was legit and not police or something?
It's the risk (other kind of risks too) that pushes me away from prostitution.
Otherwise, it's a service I'd certainly use.
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my country has many brothels. cheap and reputable. so glad i left the USA. fucking joke country.
Higher self giving lower self (interpret your own way) a eureka moment.
Women do not have this ability, which was probably why traditionally churches made them teachers and in charge of little kids; fundraising and vegetable gardening, perhaps.
So now they're trying to tell us that those the ittle darlings did more than just populate the civilization as we know it. Whilst being led by the nose by the Second and Third Wave, for the last fifty or so years, they've re-defined history via their legal gov monkeys with attempts to destroy religions because then it'll feel right. Because slaves won't dare to have eureka flashpoints, they'll could be attacked by Google. Har har har
It doesn't matter what you decide to believe, all that matters is that she GTF out of your house.
[β]cashmoney_x1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make more sense if the chick was less hot though (if we're being honest).
[β]bigmanmaserati1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"and I would say these hoes names, but then I would be snitch in" π
[β]Kane_7770 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha i nearly died from laughter
[β]justicecantakeanap0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I still remember the pain and feeling of detachment when i didn't came in bed with a specific girl. She just used to start doing like "come on? Are you finished?" That really is the best thing to totally kill your boner and sexual experience.
I felt so detached and hurt. It merely made me feel just like a dildo to her. She didn't care about my feelings, my sensations and, actually, not even my orgasm.
She just wanted a cum atm machine to prove to herself that her vagina works.
But it's not just that. A woman, like a man, should encourage her partner and be totally selfless for both to enjoy the experience of pleasure.
I am not going to stay hard if you yelled at me hours before for something trivial, i am not going to stay hard if you expect me to be a raging bull while you mock me in bed and, really, don't expect me to cum just because you are the one with the pussy without even an intention to do something that may be pleasurable to your partner.
Really, do not expect me to have a raging boner if you just lay like a fish in bed with a dead stare saying literally "no..." While my wiener, obviously, goes out of stimuli and goes back to normal.
Oh, well, i am so so glad i will not have to experience that bullshit ever again.
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Yes sir.
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Haha that's clever
[β]My_Hot_Cousin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lil Wayne said it best βBut itβs like as soon as I cum, I come to my sensesβ.
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Ahahah
[β]ProfessionalVegan-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What kind of question is that in the first place? Oh, I don't know.. is there white stuff coming out of my dick? There's your answer.
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