Hello my MGTOW brothers I hope you'll are doing great and are living your life grinding on daily basis to make your dreams come true. I'm a 21-year-old guy who's been struggling to achieve his goals too. I was a people pleaser at one point of my life so basically till I was 18-year-old I realized the hard fact by hitting the rock bottom every friend that I had was using me for their personal reasons only. Had a girlfriend for one day(yes you got me one freaking day) because I had a conversation with her the same day I proposed and came to know she was a fucking cheater and tbh I've read many stories about cheating, which somewhere lead to a mindset to never ever date a cheater. So I dumped her ass off the same freaking day. There were many interactions whether it was college or office women approached me for relationships, I already had a rule 100m away from women which helped me but now I'm asking for some help tbh I cry too that am I wrong for disliking women? I don't hate them I just simply avoid them. In reality I never had a real relationship still I feel that if I did something wrong because like now I'm that type of guy who doesn't interact with women except my mother I avoid dating sites like I'm  always calculative being logical and productive and not emotional. I'm just 21 brothers so if I'm wrong do give suggestions I'll really appreciate them. One last thing actually two I'm doing an affiliate business online but with improper guidance and no help I've lost the path where to start and what to invest on, so if someone can guide me it will be really helpful and second thing I'm fat and lazy so any tips and motivation to lose these extra kilos would be really appreciated brothers(sorry for my english).