When you are experiencing death in the family (impending) your world breaks down. You turn to others for support.

My experience with this?

Make friends: drop everything just to make you feel better. Constant check ins. Going out of their way to hang out at inconvenient times just to make you feel better.

Female friends: literally ghosting. I shit you not. Out of the 10 female friends invented to about this, one DIDNT ghost me.

The others sent a quick “I’m sorry” and that was that. Never heard from them again.

Except Susan. Who asked me for 100 dollars, and got mad when I said no.

Sorry Susan, I’m light on cash. I’ve been visiting my dying family member, and trains cost $