Gentlemen and gentlemen of MGTOW, I am in quite the pickle and I'm looking for advice from your side! I (19f) mistreated my boyfriend (19m) for almost 2 years and he's helping me fix myself. He's flopping between if I'm changing or not, so I'm probably not. It feels like there's change that has happened, but not enough. He says he'll leave me if I don't change. The problem is that he keeps giving me a bunch of chances I don't feel I deserve. He doesn't want to leave bc he says I'm his soulmate, but I feel like it would be saving him if I left. Neither of us want to break up but I feel it would be best bc he is poly but chooses to stay monogamous for me. I feel like I'm slowly eating him up inside and it kills me. He tells he wants to be together and that we're great as a couple but when our arguments get big he talks about how he should leave and we don't work together. So MGTOW, tell me how it worked for you or what I might need to hear/do. I want what's best for him.