at least in women. If you don't believe me try the experiment I did. Bumble is an app for long term relationship, as opposed to tinder which is more for hook ups. I am an above average looking guy, 7/10. I barely get any matches on bumble, and the ones I do are 3/10s and obese girls. This was without putting a job title. In my photos I look clean and professional so you can obviously tell I do have a white collar job, and I listed my college so you could tell I graduated from college, you just don't know what my job is aka you don't know if it an average job or one with $$$$. So then I added a job title, a good one. Guess what? Just like that, I suddenly started to get matches. The quantity and quality of my matches suddenly shot up. Instead of 3/10s and obese, my matches turned to 7/10s and 8/10s. Like magic right? So if you are in a long term relationship, it is 100% because of your job/money that she is with you: you have the best job/money that her looks can buy. And if she is hooking up with you, it is 100% due to your muscles/looks. Beta bux alpha fucks is the truest and most concrete theory in terms of male/female relationships. Females are biologically incapable of love with a male partner. They may be able to love their children, their parents, their dog or cat, even a dog or cat they see on youtube, but they cannot love male partners. They only think of you as an object: what can he PROVIDE me... can he be a muscular surrogate to pass good genes for MY children? Can he provide me money so I can buy more purses and take more vacations to out-attention whore my instragram whore friends? No? Then he is useless. Nothing else matters. Absolutely nothing. AF/BB (nothing in between); AWALT.