So, topic for all the capable men out there.

How many of you have had a relationship with someone who fundamentally makes bad shit happen?

I seem to have a lot of luck, although I think it comes from balls and intuition. But I get away with things, and can fix most situations fairly well on my own... whatever happens. Don't lose things. Don't miss things. Don't fuck things up.

My ex was super smart. Somehow could destroy a building, or simple travel plan, just by looking at it. Nearly got me stabbed on a couple of occasions. Jettisoned an expensive Macbook in busy Chinese traffic off the back of my motorcycle once... etc etc.

So yeh, a large reason for me GMOW is simply to avoid the unnecessary life fuck ups. And even worse, life fuck ups that you have to fix, but aren't allowed to complain about, and must somehow pretend weren't a problem.