The older I get, the more I realize that the majority of married men are just low self esteem guys putting up with way more bullshit and mistreatment than any normal human ever should be faced with. They have an almost unending ability to tolerate abuse and unreciprocated effort until they are finally disposed of and connect the dots of the fuckery when the government forces him to continue taking care of her minus actually having to be there. There is nothing good about marriage for a man. Nothing. I 'm amazed its still an institution that is supported by men at all. I give it one more generation before the public mind finally figures out the scam.