MGTOW discussions: when is the switch usually flipped?

maggot_brain79 · 2018-06-20T20:23:53+00:00

For me personally, it was about a week after cohabitation began. I had put down security deposit and first month's rent down on a place, we started moving in rather slowly. Just the necessities first because I was willing to do without a few creature comforts. Didn't have much time because when we started moving, it was a Thursday and Saturday was the start of my work week. So we got the basics out there and slept there a few days. Had a sort of honeymoon for a period of about three days. Then after a week or so of being run fuckin' ragged trying to keep up with work and keep up around the house, I felt like I was living with my mother again. I got aggravated and I think that's when the switch flipped. Next morning we woke up, I went and got my coffee, something seemed off. I sat on the porch and smoked a cigarette with my coffee and when I came back in the bitch was packing. I wondered what the fuck was up and I happened to glance at my phone and saw she'd written me a long fucking three paragraph message about how she wasn't ready to settle down yet and all of that standard bullshit. I confronted her, was pretty fuckin' angry but not violent or abusive. She hid for a while while I drank and packed up my shit. I knew I wasn't staying there that night, not after all that shit. A girl she knew came over and started helping her pack while I sat in the other room and drank.

I gave her a few choice words before she left, she said she'd been cheating on me the whole time, she hated me and essentially dared me to commit suicide. Yeah, and all this coming from a girl I was ready to marry. She dipped out and I continued to drink and talked to my buddy over the phone to see if I could go crash at his place while I got my shit together.

About 20 minutes later I've got a town cop and a county sheriff's deputy in my driveway and I'm talking to them. They said she claimed I was dangerous and might hurt myself or somebody else. By this point I was drunk off my ass and a little high because I'd just taken a few bumps of coke. Luckily before I answered the door I had pushed my shit under the couch. Let them in and we started talking. Luckily I tend to prevail with a level head even when I'm fucked up. Had a good long conversation with those guys, they determined I wasn't dangerous, just pissed off at her and fucked up. They were good dudes. Got the pat-down and what-not though so they could be sure I wasn't a hazard. I caught a lift with the town cop and got back to my buddy's place with some of my shit, what I could take with me in the officer's car. Officer gave me some wisdom and cut me loose, said to sober up and get my head right. I agreed, thanked him and went up to my buddy's place.

Waited on the stoop for him to get off work, we went in and smoked some pot. Then I got a phone call from my ex asking me if I was in fuckin' jail. I told her to piss off, went and got some of my shit from the house I'd rented, found some of it missing and called her and told her I'd have the fuckin' law come out and get my shit if she didn't produce it. That's exactly what happened and I haven't spoken to her since. Been over a year now.

She was a gold digging borderline cunt for certain. Wouldn't wish that shit on my worst enemy. Warned a lot of dudes around town about her and to stay the fuck away. She told people around town that I was an alchy and a woman-beater, nobody believed her. Alchy part was true but I never raised a hand to her. And that's that. Been MGTOW ever since.

raisins3142 · 2018-06-20T20:44:59+00:00

Way earlier than anything on your list, for me. As a stupid blue piller from a fucked up family, I had bad boundaries and would "open up about my feelings". After a few months of that and a few times of me showing weakness, it was done. They'd usually start being a bitch around the 3 month mark (right after initial tingles subsided). Thank goodness I was always the one to end it.

cobaltcolander · 2018-06-20T20:44:53+00:00

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DCrane09 · 2018-06-20T20:07:52+00:00

It was a three step process

A. Let her move into my house. (I don’t like living here there isn’t anything to do. It’s your house why should I help with anything).

B. Sold my house to rent an apartment closer to the city to make her happy. (She Wanted ‘our’ place didn’t want to co-sign lease, did almost nothing to help pack and move, hated the new place almost immediately, etc)

C. Asked her to marry me. (A month after that started the full decline of the relationship).

Lucky we ended nearly 3 years ago.

hollybegin · 2018-06-21T02:35:12+00:00

When you're not useful anymore in her eyes and she has a lot of options because of her genetic. She wasn't the sharpest tool in the shade but when it came to find reasons to ditch me, she reached Stephen King's level of imagination...

Ghustgan · 2018-06-21T15:17:39+00:00

Damn these stories send shivers down my spine.

Title	MGTOW discussions: when is the switch usually flipped?
Author	cobaltcolander
Upvotes	7
Comments	33
Date	June 20, 2018 7:59 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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