Monk mode advice

AvailableGuava · 2019-02-04T21:31:55+00:00

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Vinninho9 · 2019-02-04T21:31:43+00:00

Of course you can, just make sure you set clear boundaries.

Older_Miggy · 2019-02-04T22:15:53+00:00

Yes you can, but why are you taking shit from your family about this?

Tell them to fuck off.

Karmageddon17 · 2019-02-04T21:58:38+00:00

I personally love the female energy. I just realized the whole white picket fence dream is dead. I still date just don’t ever get to the point of cohabitation. The relationships will run their course once they realize this and that’s fine. They will call you time wasters. It was fun while it lasted. Nice to have met you... just live your life, do what makes you satisfied. Seek validation from your accomplishments not a mate. Be happy you deserve this. Whether that’s alone or with some form of company so be it. Don’t be a shovel. But if you choose to date atleast know all of the shit that can transpire and protect your lifestyle.

Mephitus · 2019-02-04T21:46:53+00:00

You can't really get rid of your own sexuality without chemical castration, which I very strongly recommend AGAINST. You can totally go for women either in a GF or just FWB kind of situation and that's totally up to you. MGTOW is more about avoiding entanglements with women that could entail legal intervention by the state (marriage, kids, cohabitation, etc). Just set and maintain clearly defined boundaries. As a secondary option, might I suggest considering a doll? A bit of an investment, but if all you want to do is clear your head without the female drama it's worth the cost.

guitarguy1749 · 2019-02-04T22:23:56+00:00

you're not alone. I am 12 months monk mode but still struggle with the desire for sex. mostly I find that masturabation and porn help to alleviate it. I also kind of got that whole pussy chasing thing out of my system in my late twenties and early thirties. I have no patience any more for pursuing women and dealing with the games. If anything I would consider paying for some sex but for now I forge on with monk mode. don't let your family pressure you to feeling like you need to get back in to the dating scene.

Disbursed-operant · 2019-02-04T22:28:13+00:00

Just get a hooker. A good escort not some streetwalker.

Use a condom.

You're welcome.

2019-02-05T00:47:03+00:00

Take a trip to South East Asia.

SolidFinding · 2019-02-05T06:09:45+00:00

Your family doesn't have your best interests at heart. They're thinking about you having grandchildren so that they can have playthings, and so they don't feel envious of their relatives ("my son has a wife and 2 kids - what about yours?"). That's all there is to it, really. They don't care if you get eaten alive by the courts system or knee-deep in some other trouble. You should tell them to fuck off.

I don't see anything wrong with seeing hookers or grabbing opportunities, etc. as long as you're careful, use a false name and above all don't shit where you eat (whether that's your home, your social circle or your work). Don't get any bitch pregnant, and stay safe. There's nothing wrong with this approach to MGTOW, although it's too fraught with risk for my liking personally.

simplisticallysimple · 2019-02-05T02:30:20+00:00

Pump and dump

A lot of you use MGTOW as a refuge from not doing well in the open sexual marketplace.

It's not too late to learn it.

Title	Monk mode advice
Author	nubt29104
Upvotes	12
Comments	14
Date	February 4, 2019 9:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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