Apologies for my last post. I guess through all that garbled mess, I was just trying to say, I'm glad I found this page and I really think it aligns with where I'm at in life. Is it normal to still want to hold on to the plantation, while slowly walking away. I guess what I mean is part of me still wants what marriage was like 40 years ago. But 40 years ago doesn't align with what it's like today.