A friend of mine met up with a girl from OkCupid. She's 34 years old and from Europe. They talk online, she blatantly admits she wants to get pregnant, they meet up anyway, they share a bottle of wine. He heads over to the bathroom. Returns. Continues drinking and for the first time in his life he blacks out from alcohol.

Next day. No idea what happened. Low-grade freaking out. She is gone. He sends her a message:

  • He: "Hey, what happened?".
  • She: "dont worry about it. We had sex.".
  • He: "We didn't use a condom!",
  • She: "I said don't worry about it, I used birth-control pills."
  • He: "I've never blacked out from a bottle of wine before, tell me what happened".
  • She: "Yea, I drugged you. Sorry.".

Long story short she admits to drugging him. He isn't sure what she gave him or when she gave it to him as she never told him, but GHB or Flunitrazepam seems probable and when he went to the bathroom might be the "time of crime".

He starts talking to one of his female friends. Tells the entire story. She ends up telling him he's lying because men can't get raped. Telling him it isn't possible. "Men don't get raped she tells him". "She is a hardcore feminist tho", he tells me, "so I guess I wasn't expecting anything better." - he says.

9 months passes...He gets a call from her.

She: "Hi, I'm keeping the baby and I'm due next week.

Yesterday: The baby is born.

They're having a paternity test and she just stole a kid from him (he wanted a family) and ruined a kid in the same go (no father). Good job.