My ex just called me

crackpjp3 · 2020-01-01T10:41:01+00:00

It isn't a coincidence that she called you during New Years. She was lonely and wanted to see if she could start using you again. You're nothing but validation and resources to this cunt. Ghost the bitch, and continue living the life you built for yourself.

Edit for typo

CpuDoc67 · 2020-01-01T10:54:55+00:00

Women are very skilled when it comes to manipulating men. She called on new year's because she knew you'd answer. If you were with a chick you would not have answered. Now she knows the playing field.

I've gone back in different relationships and regretted each time until I wised up. Its just like fanning a smoldering fire.

Make decisions with your mind not your heart.

(Edited for typo)

Labiggame · 2020-01-01T10:29:30+00:00

Take vitamins, eat Whole Foods and keep pushing. That will keep your mind from stress and depression. Use this time to focus on you. She will come back. They always do because you are the prize.

Ody_ssey · 2020-01-01T10:35:51+00:00

Just a call put you in so much stress. Imagine starting relationship with her again. People don't change. Remember those red flags you dumped her for. She had her fun and now she is looking to settle down.

leemming · 2020-01-01T11:23:35+00:00

90 days.... its all you need ... 90 days with no contact ... it takes about 90 days for you to form new habits. life without her will be the norm and she will be just a memory. stay strong for 90 days and I promise you that it will get better.... whenever you have the urge to call her go for a walk or a run .. keep your mind busy. and stay away from woman. you are vulnerable and some thot will take advantage of your condition. hope it helps.

Free_Of_Will · 2020-01-01T10:45:21+00:00

Just think about how many dicks plowed her while you were apart,now think how weak you look. She'll just mess with you either to get her idea of revenge or to satisfy her need of validation that she has power over you. Don't chase! Don't cave in!

lolomotif12 · 2020-01-01T11:00:00+00:00

You have severe oneitis and you know this girl is no good for you. Go monk mode, also tell her to never ever contact you and block and delete her from everything. I know it's hard when you have feelings but have faith in time and keep reminding yourself why you have broken up with her and why she isnt right for you! You need to take a daily red pill and realise that she isnt what you want her to be.

Trust_No_Bitches · 2020-01-01T11:30:58+00:00

Oh boy, you messed up telling her you loved her.

This was just a Hoover and her plan all along was to see if she could put you back into rotation with her other simps and use you for whatever she wants from you in the future.

Now, she's going to ghost you and call you randomly when she wants attention repeatedly only showing interest when you're moving on with another woman and rejecting her.

If she really cared she would go out of her way see you in person instead of resorting to lazy communication to get attention from you. And at the very least she would be looking to atone for her cheating on you on the past.

The best redpill advice I can give you is this:

Relationships are a ONE TIME only event and you can't go back. There's no staying "friends" with someone who cheated on you or hurt you this badly. No texting them. No late night phone calls. No coffee dates or lunches. Nothing. They fuck you over then they can't come back into your life. Closure means closing the chapter on a relationship not leaving a bookmark in it to pick back up where you left off later.

You need to tell her, either in a text or a voice message, that last night was a mistake and that you'll be blocking her. Keep it short and sweet. "Last night was a mistake. I don't love you. I'm blocking you." And then actually block her. You need this win for yourself, and she needs to know that you're not going to be in her rotation at any point in the future.

kruggerand · 2020-01-01T10:31:17+00:00

I moved out from living with my last girlfriend three different times. I went back after the first two times thinking things would improve. Did they? That would have to be an unqualified NO.

American__Jedi · 2020-01-01T19:43:50+00:00

Consider quitting drinking. Look how it affected you that night and likely you can think of many other bad nights in the past. It's a waste of money and affects health in the negative. It also reduces testosterone. Lower testosterone is at almost epidemic proportions lately. The extra money in your pocket alone is worthless.

2020-01-01T11:09:53+00:00

Pussy is a hell of a drug, you are just having withdrawal symptoms. Time to find a new addiction that is non toxic like smoking.

2020-01-01T11:17:55+00:00

This is a tough one to answer, because from the anguish that you're showing, you have feelings for her... still. The 1st thought that came to my mind after reading your post, was "show some respect for yourself". But in one of your answers you wrote you both cheated... I would stay away, not because awalt, cause c'mon let's be real not all women are the same, but because what you had with her is tainted af (imo at least). You resent her, and for all the initiative that she took in contacting you, you better be sure that she resents you. It might just be that she is in fact fucking with you and seeking in the end to even the scores. Be careful with this one dude. My two cents? Stop smoking, hit the gym or go out with friends, or better yet go out and get laid, but don't make the mistake of thinking that you can be with her and just forget and ignore. If you as a 20 years old are dating a 26 years old, to use a phrase that I heard on YouTube, you are dating down. The aim should be 18 years old. For this one the wall has already appeared on the horizon. So...show some respect for yourself.

2020-01-01T11:24:01+00:00

Fucking idiot ... rule 1 - ghost the bitch, and keep it that way.

max-million · 2020-01-01T14:59:32+00:00

Hey Bro, my ex of 5 years called me at 12:06 AM, saw the missed call, ignored it and laughed inside. I have checks way hotter than her chasing me now and I couldn't care less and couldn't be happier with my direction of my life. Become a better version of yourself, invest in yourself.

"When the past calls, let it go to voicemail"

dreadbill · 2020-01-01T12:15:30+00:00

Listen man. You need to cut all contact. She’s one bitch out of a fucking trillion. You haven’t even seen a fraction of them. Or better yet... you haven’t even seen a fraction of the world. You’re how young? You’re going to let some stupid pussy lead you on? Bro. CUT THE BITCH OFF. She legit isn’t SHIT. Pick up your dignity and never speak to her again. You’re letting her think she can just get away with being a piece of shit... and then think she can get away with getting you right back after she dogged you. You’re allowing it. You’re keeping the problem alive. Fuck her bro. Seriously. Don’t play a part in the demonic world that women lead. Go your own way and fucking LIVE YOUR LIFE. It’s one girl dude. She. Isn’t. Shit. Go on a vacation. See how fun it is when you’re not arguing the entire time or worrying about pleasing her. Go to a place you’ve never been to. Do something spontaneous. Treat yourself. Block. Ignore. Repeat. Forever. She is never ever going to change. The relationship is over. It’s been over. As I said... pick up your dignity... and move on brother.

z31fanatic · 2020-01-01T12:35:51+00:00

all my redpill wisdom is still there

No it's not. You are blue pilled as fuck.

It sounds like you are headed back to the plantation. Do what you want.

Dolfin346 · 2020-01-01T14:16:47+00:00

She is playing with your emotions brother. Dont fall for the trap, man up ans tell yourself you deserve better and start working towards your goals uraaah

binbagaccount · 2020-01-01T14:49:29+00:00

Your feel broken now, but I put it like this, imagine the pain getiback together, just for to stab you in the back, give you an STD and for you be left rotting. Make sure agony and pain outweighs the good or being flying back to that rotton whore.

Crafty-Tackle · 2020-01-01T15:18:16+00:00

Most of us are 1 blowjob away from simping out.

I am glad to hear you blocked her. Focus on yourself and your own life and your own goals.

CodeDaniel · 2020-01-01T15:23:46+00:00

The best way is to listen to your heart. No one else. Take her back. Marry her. And then one day take your crushed heart from the gutter and finally GYOW.

Some of us have to suffer enough until they finally Wake up.

user_miki · 2020-01-01T17:59:15+00:00

yeah men are good manipulating things.

Women are good manipulating men.Women just come in your life and say ,I want this,that and that.And simps like good puppy dogs jump in and comply with ,produce and provide.

This is how it was before MGTOW.

Title	My ex just called me
Author	crackpjp3
Upvotes	74
Comments	48
Date	January 1, 2020 10:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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