So about 10 yrs back, I was engaged.

Wedding got called off, before any real damage was done. Looking back now, I dodged a fkn Hiroshima (she got knocked up, married, and still tries hitting me up to this day).

Went through ~3 yrs of absolute hell bc I was getting over things.

Since then, been in/out of a few short relationships (3-4 mos)...nothing major. I've always been the one to call it quits once I got a weird vibe.

Fast forward about 5 yrs, haven't had sex. Like at all.

And it hasn't really bothered me.

Been doing the porn thing, but that shit got out of hand so put an end to that for the most part. Activity down about 95%.

In 2019, sorted and simplified bunch of life stuff - zero debt, working on expanding my biz, love my dog, and my fam.

Clean slate, clean mind, etc.

But this no-sex thing isn't normal for me now that the testosterone has built up again (39/m btw) since I cut out the porn.

I've tried a few times to go the "massage" route a while back, but it just ain't for me.

What are some viable solutions here to get a nut off on the regular without getting #me3'd or tripped up with soul suckers?