I'm a guy with a difficult decision. I have my daughter 4 days a month. I live where I do because I get to see my daughter on a regular basis. But, I ABSOLUTELY HATE where I live and what I do. My job is not what I want. I have no family here (other than my daughter). And I'm always struggling financially, especially with the child support. I have friends and spin plates. But, it's become mundane and I need to think about the future.

I have the opportunity to move across country and live near my friends and family. I'll have a better job, a better place to live and be able to become financially stronger. Things would be better for me.

But, I'm not sure what impact that would have on my daughter? I'd be going my own way, for sure. But, I can't shake the feeling that this will negatively impact her in the long run.