I am requesting help gents. Heading into a divorce with a very strong headed woman. We have 2 kids so I have to keep seeing and talking to her no matter what happens for the rest of our lives. But every time we talk, even though I'm ok with our marriage being in the past she pushes my buttons to the point I say dumb shit I know she will use against me.

Here is the question:

How have some of you dealt with the build up of anger while talking to a woman you absolutely have to in order to keep sane and to keep the divorce rape to a minimum?