Need help

eduardkoopman · 2018-10-30T11:12:03+00:00

Join groups, people, or even orginasations.
That interest you, or might interest you.
And then become familiar. or if it matches maybe even friends with the ones you like.

This might do 2 things:
1. You might feel conntected/belonging to a group of people (and maybe to a certain cause); which might help with loneliness feelings.
2. You might end up with personal friendships with people that share a common interest or goal(s); which might help with loneliness feelings as well.

That is what I do/did. a memeber of 2 Buddhist groups, and a martial arts group. I enjoy that, even as an introvert.

sanchezkid · 2018-10-30T11:09:56+00:00

Find a hobby and stay active. Usually a set goal is what you need. After that said goal is accomplished find another goal.

But don’t set short goals, aim for the long goals, you know will be achievable.

The trick is to take your mind off those “feelings”. Same feelings that make you sad and lonely.

sauceschrome · 2018-10-30T11:15:20+00:00

You need to deal with it, one way or another. Being needy is just fertile ground for being exploited.

20cansofSpam · 2018-10-30T11:22:36+00:00

felizmentefeliz · 2018-10-30T11:26:35+00:00

To shun relationships is always the best option. When I think back what it would be, a pain in the ass, I always arrive to the same conclusion.

839027364 · 2018-10-30T12:49:58+00:00

we feel lonely when we have love to share. start loving yourself !

footloosemonk · 2018-10-30T13:17:22+00:00

Go back to dating and try to have self respect.

Am sure you would come out wiser.

DangZagnut · 2018-10-30T13:50:07+00:00

Get in a relationship, you'll be wanting to get out fairly quick.

Perhaps MGTOW isn't right for you. I mean, if it isn't natural for you, don't do it.

Random_reddit_user_9 · 2018-10-30T12:50:19+00:00

Happiness come from within...

TheObelisk · 2018-10-30T18:51:47+00:00

Tell you what, go read through the first page of r/relationship_advice and then come back here and tell me you want to get into a relationship.

nulom · 2018-10-30T17:17:01+00:00

Start by loving being alone by yourself, enjoy the silence.

felizmentefeliz · 2018-10-30T11:31:34+00:00

or just look to a mangina an put you into his feet.

sardoonoomsy · 2018-10-31T08:16:38+00:00

Sample from a range of and then committ to a martial art

Title	Need help
Author	NeutralXO
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	October 30, 2018 11:05 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9smtak/need_help/
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