I'm a 29 year old man and my wife is making me financially unstable. It wasn't always this way though.

I met my current wife at a bar and normally I'm not good with the ladies but she seemed really interested in my job (software engineering) and my degrees etc. So of course I was happy to tell her all about my life even the private things like my lack of sexual activity. And for some reason she seemed really cool. Despite being in her mid 30s The only downside with her is she already has a kid before me. We get looks because he's african American but that's not a big deal. Anyway we dated for a few months and she wanted to get married so we did.

But I used to have a nice apartment and a decent car for myself. But ever since we got married theres been HUGE changes. Like selling it for a minivan, her sudden interest in shoes/brands. I'm not sure how long I can keep up with the strange behavior. The only thing we really agree on is Bernie Sanders. Still not enough to get laid with my wife though.